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commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
3 points

I laugh as the parents panic and tell their kid “you can’t say that!” And then I explain that I just talk differently from other people! Kids are smart, they usually get it :)...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
-1 points

I'm glad you're taking the comments from the toddlers in a light hearted way. They can be brutal, albeit just misinformed. Honestly, how do you even deal with that? I wouldn't be sure what to say....

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
1 points

Here is a more summarized version to help with community engagement. “Who’s John? • 40, married, 3 kids. • Lifelong stutterer. • Wants to help others feel less alone. ⸻ His Story in a Nutshell...

Community & SupportCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Personal StoriesTrauma & PsychologicalHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
6 points

Hey, I’m always glad to give insight, and I’m really glad you’re thinking this through! Heck, stuttering isn’t something I ever thought about until it happened to me! And honestly at this point, I’m...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
3 points

For me, stuttering has absolutely nothing to do with social anxiety. If there are certain words that are hard for me to say, I will stutter when trying to say those words even when speaking to myself....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
2 points

Thanks! I'm happy to answer your questions. I was the only male in my Masters class and was the only one who stuttered. I've found it to be a really powerful tool that both parents and patients appr...

Causes & VariabilitySchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsEmployment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
3 points

I think they get ahold of it easily like it just doesn't effect their speech mechanism the way it does ours. It made me think we have something far more oversensitive to social anxiety but that it ha...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
2 points

Good point. I use that term "rightly" because for so long our field treated stuttering as something to "fix" with fluency shaping tools that worked in the clinic but failed. For so long we treated the...

Identity & DisabilityTherapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Medicalization / NeurodiversityPositive Therapy TechniquesIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2025
1 points

I found self help for the stutterer by Malcolm Fraser really helpful, especially the parts that deal with the psychological and behavioural aspects of stuttering. They really helped me adress the nega...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2025
1 points

you are not the only one, same with me as well, when people ask me my name i get stuck, and they say have you forgotten ur name itself. it hurts but we cant even complain on them...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
7 points

My wife said my stutter was cute. We have four kids, the 3rd stutters. He's graduating next week from the #1 high school in the country. I founded and sold a tech company. We celebrate 26 years tog...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
5 points

See the problem with acceptance, it didn't really solve the problem of stuttering, the habit, the fear, the behaviour, all we have developed because we had stuttering, we did stutter, people around us...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
3 points

Never had thoughts like that! Having a stutter shouldn’t impact you being able to find a loving partner and get married. Not everyone wants to have kids, but for those who do, educate them on stutteri...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
6 points

My stutter has cased me a lot of pain throughout my life but I’m grateful for the perspective it’s given me. I know for a fact that I want to live my life regardless of my stutter and I think I’ve had...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMay 12, 2025
32 points

The cycle of life as a healing stutterer

The cycle of life as a healing stutterer Stage 1: They were born with it or maybe just predisposed From the outside, everything looked normal. But their nervous system was always a little more sensit...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalCycles & RandomnessSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
1 points

I’m honestly looking into getting a “did I stutter?” tattoo. It’s kind of a catchphrase...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
17 points

guys, **success** is not “speaking fluently” but feeling heard. Your stutter isn’t the problem. The way you’re treated when you stutter — that’s the problem!...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
1 points

I see. but what does depersonified or repersonified mean? do you mean, when we use peripheral vision especially in the corner of our eyes that feels threating, our personality (relies on external vali...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
8 points

I am nearing my 25th anniversary in a few months… I had all those “what if” thoughts at some time… For example, I just couldn’t imagine how I was going to say my vows… I put a lot of unnecessary energ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
13 points

While I can only provide my unique perspective given my relationship with stutter, having children with your loved one is the beautiful thing life can offer you. The love you have for your kids is lik...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance