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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2014
3 points

I find when I'm doing presentations, it's the anticipation that gets to me. The days before and moments leading up to it I get anxious, but once I'm up there I don't even think about it. It's weird re...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2014
1 points

oh jesus, everyday man. I personally look away, but when I look back and they are staring right at me, I freak out internally...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2014
1 points

I'm going to my doctor tomorrow trying to get something for temporary or extreme circumstances. I.e. job interviews, presentations, maybe going to a new place, meeting new people. idk man, I'm just tr...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Medication InquiriesAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 24, 2014
3 points

anti-anxiety medications

anti-anxiety medications hey guys...i was wondering what meds have worked for you and might work for me. my disfluency is a silent block...i seldom have repititions. my silent block ranges from non-ex...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2014
1 points

I try to maintain eye contact, but I feel bad about it sometimes -- like, they're continuing to stare at me, waiting for whatever needs to come out. Then again, if I don't keep eye contact and there a...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2014
2 points

I barely look people in the eye when I speak to them, feels easier to talk that way because I get more nervous if I look at them and my thought pattern kinda disappears...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2014
1 points

I never make eye contact with people. It's really uncommon for me to do so. I'm aware it engages with the listener, but I can't get myself to do so. I believe that if I lose eye contact, they'll also ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2014
3 points

I tend to maintain eye contact, but as soon as I stutter, the other person looks away uncomfortably and then I feel uncomfortable and look away too....

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
postr/StutterJun 22, 2014
6 points

Eye contact during stuttering

Eye contact during stuttering Do you maintain eye contact when you're talking to someone one on one when stuttering (blocks specifically as I consider them the most awkward, but any type is relevant)?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2014
1 points

I had the opposite experience. I was given a very hard time since the cop thought I was nervous or hiding something. I was actually treated very poorly and felt very disrespected ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2014
1 points

I once dated a girl who confessed during our brief relationship that she thought my stutter was "cute". I'm pretty sure she was into "different" kinds of guys. She would always bring it up and stare a...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2014
4 points

I feel it burdens me because inside I'm much more sociable. Like, I want to meet people, I want to talk to people. I want to engage random people in conversation. I've spent time with people who can d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2014
3 points

Just because he's doing it doesn't mean he doesn't have anxiety (he may or may not, I just don't know). There's the "riding the lion" principle: A crowd of people is watching a stuntman do a performa...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2014
1 points

I've been on live TV two times,and I stuttered once or twics saying my name and some other information - it was stressfull,you guessed it,but nothing more than talking to any other unknown person in y...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2014
8 points

I think this is a really important question that I think gets to one of the roots of why so many of us struggle. I've been trying to answer this question for a while now and though im getting closer, ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2014
1 points

I really believe that my stutter is mostly just mental. When I think about it it is so much worse and when I get stuck and think about trying to find a way to get the words out, it is also much harder...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2014
1 points

Kind of hard to explain. I would feel nervous in my head trying to go over how I should say what I want. I'd run out of breathe and my first words would be hard to get out. I seen myself as being awkw...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2014
2 points

OP I have had days wayyyy down in the dumps because of my stutter. but at the end of the day, it's only you facing it. no one is gonna help you, no one CAN help you, it is a choice you have to make to...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2014
4 points

It's all about accepting your speech, once you learn that stuttering is a part of you, you can then work on making it easier to deal with, positivity. What you're doing is basically fueling your stut...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2014
1 points

I also hate the phone. I especially hate crappy cell phone connections because not only do they sound choppy, but I sound even more so. And they're asking me to repeat again and again, and ugh, just f...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names