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commentr/StutterSep 7, 2014
8 points

Most of us had parents who either didn't want to address it or tried to "fix" it and I it doesn't really do much good. Many kids develop stuttering around the age of seven so its not uncommon. There's...

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commentr/StutterSep 6, 2014
1 points

of course there is a psychological reaction to a physical problem. I think it's important to distinguish that people get anxiety from stuttering, not they stutter because they have an anxiety disorder...

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2014
2 points

Good for you. Wish there could be some program for getting rid of our fears, but its not that simple :(...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2014
3 points

It's been said before on here, but there's no doubt that the worry and anxiety that stuttering instills in you is far worse than the actual stuttering itself. It really takes a toll on your mind. On...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2014
3 points

It would definitely not be nearly as bad if I wasn't afraid/insecure about it. I'm trying to change my mindset but that's easier said than done. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2014
2 points

So would stuttering be as bad if you weren't so afraid of talking and stuttering?...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 4, 2014
17 points

Having a stutter sucks

Having a stutter sucks This is going to be a little long and is pretty much just a rant. I have had a stutter for as long as I can remember but I didn't really feel insecure about it until high scho...

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commentr/StutterSep 3, 2014
2 points

Yeah that's super rough, especially when it catches you by surprise but Im willing to bet this experience is going to make similar situations not as scary in the future. And you can become comfortable...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2014
1 points

Being open does help. Only a couple of my closer friends know that I stutter and it relieves a lot of pressure. I'm able to talk to them much more fluently and some even question if I do actually stut...

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postr/StutterSep 3, 2014
5 points

The group interview

The group interview Hi, lifelong stutterer here. I had a unique job interview today. Got there, and the woman checking us in said something about a "group interview." It didn't quite register at first...

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commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
1 points

I have problems with anxiety too, and I'm just now making my first effort to address it - I recently started therapy. I agree, anxiety does not cause my stutter but it does make it worse. Amazingly, I...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
7 points

Being more open helps a lot! While being anxious (used here in the general, non-medical sense though I do also have GAD) doesn't cause stuttering it can exacerbate it for lots of people. Ironically on...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
1 points

What you wrote is quite inspiring, I am glad you were able to get to a place where you feel comfortable in your own skin and able to say what you want to say when you want to say it. I am 21 years ol...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2014
1 points

Yes, I think we're on the same page, but getting there from different angles. There is a lot of mind-reading that goes on in the minds of people who stutter. And whether that gets interpreted as "[ho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2014
3 points

Ah, but it is only during the moment of stuttering that there is an increase in salivary cortisol levels (an index of stress). People who stutter don't have chronically increased salivary cortisol lev...

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2014
2 points

I agree with you. But, I wonder if we (as a group) are using the same definition of "stuttering" -- as in are we discussing the behavior (actual disfluencies) or the condition (being one prone to disf...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2014
2 points

So there have been times in the past where ive felt very confident for whatever reason and have been as fluent as anyone. Lately though ive been through some hardships and have been blocking more than...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2014
1 points

That's strange. I'm confident that stuttering is intertwined with social anxiety, which in itself is strongly linked to self-esteem. Can't give references now but will try to research later....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2014
1 points

Hey thanks for clarifying that. So, if our working definition of 'low self esteem' is a lack of agency, low self efficacy, external locus of control, I'm not satisfied with Braden's description (or,...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterAug 27, 2014
5 points

Being called out on your stutter.

Being called out on your stutter. So, lately I have been called out on my stutter on a few different occasions. This has been complete strangers, who calls me out after just a minute of conversation. ...

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Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying