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postr/StutterFeb 28, 2015
17 points

Lately my stutter has been so bad I don't really even initiate conversation

Lately my stutter has been so bad I don't really even initiate conversation This is completely an issue of how I personally feel about my stutter. I shouldn't feel so defeated. But when there are a lo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2015
1 points

If it's an emergency and I am emotional about it, I have problems. Like if I were to try and call for help and was frantic......

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2015
1 points

I think you could really benefit from therapy, even if you have had it before. And just because it may have not worked in the past you might have a different attitude and a greater need for it now. F...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2015
1 points

Honestly it probably depends on how many women are in the group lol. We have a lot of regulars and whenever someone new comes in we keep it pretty upbeat and are excited to meet them so the environmen...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2015
2 points

30/F/Central US/mild to medium stutterer I don't like social media so no Facebook, Twitter, etc. Best to contact me on Reddit. Speech therapy, some hypnotherapy but I think I was too young to take it...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2015
2 points

I'm actually a pretty outgoing person....I always get the courage to start a story...it goes smoothly for the first sentence then I think to myself...Wow, I haven't stuttered yet and BAM! Shot down......

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2015
1 points

Oh gosh, I just saw I forgot to reply to your questions. Sorry about that! Grad school got in the way. Anyway, I don't mind answering your questions publicly. 1.) I think the origin of my anxiety is...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & PsychologicalAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2015
2 points

8 days later but I still want to share this. I'm also in college and I have registered with my Office for Students with Disabilities, OSD, and it's been a really big help in terms of social anxiety. T...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Access & RightsAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2015
1 points

It seems to me that you do not stutter that much if someone who you know a bit does not notice that you stutter :D But as an answer I think no one really accepts it. I can tell friends and adults gla...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2015
1 points

Try using headphones and keeping the phone away from your face. It helps make it feel less formal like you're just talking to yourself....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2015
2 points

There are better ways to solve your problems than running away from them. I have stuttered almost my whole life and get anxious while speaking many times. I mostly do it out of fear that the other per...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterFeb 23, 2015
9 points

Ended up hanging up during a phone interview over phone anxiety, and feel like a total loss

Ended up hanging up during a phone interview over phone anxiety, and feel like a total loss I'm not even sure what do about this anxiety anymore. I'm currently looking for another job and can't, for t...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSuicidal Ideation & High Distress
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2015
1 points

You don't have to do anything. "Should" is still fear-based thinking. Do you want to? I really struggled with practicing at home (I usually didn't) because everything seemed stupid and/or embarrassing...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2015
1 points

It seems like stuttering is really about fear of social rejection, not about speaking in general. I'd be interested to see more research on this....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2015
2 points

Hi there, thanks for sharing, I can totally relate to isolating myself, feeling insecure and not wanting to put myself out there because other people might not like me, for what that's worth. What do...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 22, 2015
22 points

I stuttered through grade school, here's the advice I wish someone had told me 15 years ago

I stuttered through grade school, here's the advice I wish someone had told me 15 years ago I still stutter sometimes but a lot less than I used to. Here's my advice for someone just starting high sch...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesFluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2015
1 points

I do. I can speak fluently for several months, but some days, when I'm stressed out, it comes back. But there are some words I can't pronounce; therefore I avoid. Like 'atlanta', 'girl'. So weird. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 21, 2015
14 points

It feels good not being alone in the world

It feels good not being alone in the world Sometimes I feel incredibly alone and isolated, I feel sorry for myself, and my hatred towards everybody else grows steadily as I go further and further into...

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Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2015
1 points

Exactly what other people are saying, it's the social pressure to fit in that makes you nervous which leads to stuttering. I usually react to such situations by holding my arm. ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2015
1 points

Even that won't help him answer his question. As I kid I stuttered less than I do now and I was more extraverted than introverted. That changed when my stuttering became eorse and I became uncomfortab...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment