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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2015
0 points

Thank you for the help. I'm currently in a viscous cycle..the more I think about my speech, the worse it is. The worse it is...the more I think about it. Thanks again!!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2015
1 points

Deep breaths. Speak slightly slower than you want to. No more than three words per breath. Don't be scared of stuttering....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingFluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2015
2 points

Are you going to advertise that you stutter at the start? I want to say that stutter doesn't hold you back from speaking your mind, you can still speak your mind, you'll just do it while stuttering. ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 9, 2015
4 points

Interview tomorrow, and I feel like I'm going to stutter all over the place. Any advice?

Interview tomorrow, and I feel like I'm going to stutter all over the place. Any advice? I have an interview at Bob Evans, I'm not really nervous about the interview itself but just the fact that my s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2015
-2 points

Not a parent and will never be one. I don't want to bring a child into this environment. The economy sucks, the majority of people out there are shitty to one another, and schooling is a horrendous e...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2015
-4 points

Not a parent and will never be one. Would you like to relive the emotions that stuttering has brought you all through school as a child and even now? Would you be comfortable putting your kid through...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2015
3 points

Haven't talked to a person of the opposite sex for close to 6 years. Stuttering does have an affect on me not being social, but the biggest factor stopping me is lack of social skills. I don't have th...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2015
6 points

As a teen about to turn 20, it's been absolute hell on my social development. Just now in my second year of college am I learning how to have a sizable number of friends. Speaking to strangers is an e...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2015
2 points

As others here have said, it definitely made me much more anxious about meeting people and perhaps more closed off than I would be otherwise. I in fact have never started a relationship from a casual ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2015
4 points

I want to say it doesn't get in the way of me meeting people, as I'm normally social when calm, but it does. There have been plenty of moments where I would have probably made new friends/connections ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2015
1 points

It's direct speech! When you talk to someone through phone, there is this instant fear of embarassing yourself, because the person you're talking to is paying all of his/hers attention to you. If you ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2015
1 points

Yeah, this is what I always figured. When you're face to face with someone and experiencing a block of some sort, they have visual cues and realize this. They wait. When I'm on the phone, the other pe...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2015
2 points

I have the same problem and i also think it's about confidence .I guess the solution is to learn and speak more in english ....

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2015
2 points

I've always thought it's because you lose all the nonverbal cues that come along with in-person conversations. Like /u/middletwin said, if you have a big pause, the person on the other end can't see w...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2015
3 points

I have talked with some fellow stutterers and we came up with a few ideas. One thing might be that when talking in person and you have a block (or what have you) the other person can see what is happe...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterApr 3, 2015
9 points

What causes the extra anxiety and phobia toward using the phone?

What causes the extra anxiety and phobia toward using the phone? I was writing a paper on stuttering, and was wondering why it occurs. Link to resources would be helpful too, thanks!...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2015
1 points

Yeah, it probably plays a big part in it. But I also notice that the frequency of blocks, like when you know you'll get a block, is way higher in English. Must be because I'm not confident enough when...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2015
1 points

Ha I totally understand. That being said, try to reason your way out of worrying. You don't know these people, they are seeing potentially hundreds of people in a day, the odds are drastically in yo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2015
1 points

I really find difficult to tell about my situation because I think it might show I am unfit for position but Ill try to tell them. Thank you for the tips, Ill follow them all....

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2015
1 points

Less pressure. When you're drunk, people are actually expecting you to slur you speech so we don't need to worry. When you're sober people are expecting you to not slur your speech, so that's why we w...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Anxiety & Social Judgment