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commentr/StutterJun 18, 2015
3 points

Yeah, I'm pretty sure she wasn't a stutterer. But it's this constant focus that people sometimes have on the delivery and not on the message. As a stutterer it's just really hard to see videos like ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2015
1 points

I haven't noticed any difference in my stuttering, but my anxiety is way lower though. So I can talk to anyone I want. Outside the Internet that is. Still too scared to say hi over the microphone to m...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
postr/StutterJun 17, 2015
8 points

Off to do an oral presentation for university

Off to do an oral presentation for university Im scared as fuck and have been fearing this day for months, wish me luck people!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2015
1 points

It may be easy to forget in superfluos situations such as asking for directions, but in formal events is our worst handicap. ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2015
2 points

> Mainly because I'm not worried about being wrong Glad to know I'm not alone. I feel as though 90% of my blocks come from insidious and barely perceptible thoughts that make me doubt what's about...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2015
1 points

Oh, no doubt. I'm a *very* image obsessed person. OCD, Anxiety, and occasional depression don't help either. I'm sure there's a lot going on mentally that I'm not actively conscious of. ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2015
1 points

I had a speech therapist once who told me something to the effect of that the anxiety doesn't cause the stuttering, but can make it worse. That sounds about right. The problem is that the stuttering a...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2015
2 points

True. I think confidence plays a huge role. For example, if I'm talking to a child about my job duties, I probably won't stutter. Mainly because I'm not worried about being wrong (how would they kno...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2015
1 points

It might have to do with alcohol being a depressant. Maybe it makes it harder to over-tighten your vocal cords? Might also be confidence, of course. I notice a similar thing, although it's not entire...

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2015
1 points

It isn't easy at first, I'm just a beginner and I still have a bad time every time I have to speak in public, but I feel it is something that had to be done. People there are ver comprensive and frien...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2015
1 points

I've considered joining a toastmasters group, but just the idea sorta puts me uneasy. Maybe eventually, I'll force myself to go....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2015
1 points

I to am going through a rough period speech-wise right now too. Having it come and go in waves like this almost makes it harder. For example I started a new job 2 months ago, and my rough speech perio...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightCycles & RandomnessAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2015
2 points

How did you get that attitude change? I find it difficult to not care about it, people look at me like wtf is happening when I stutter. I get really stressed out but I can't find a way to ignore it. ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2015
2 points

Regarding Toastmasters, I believe my speech impediment heavily relies on the situation i'm in. By getting used to public speaking I hope to lower my anxiety levels when communicating orally. It's like...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2015
1 points

I've commonly heard that people find their stutter much less noticeable when speaking a foreign language. I have to say that the opposite is the case with me, my stutter is much, much worse when tryin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesSituational VariabilityAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 4, 2015
1 points

After reading this, I may give it another go. I tried up until this past year to learn Chinese and only got to the 2nd level of my University's classes, but then my interest fizzled out when I realize...

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Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+1 more
postr/StutterJun 3, 2015
3 points

How to Learning a Second Language?

How to Learning a Second Language? So I'm an American trying to learn Spanish. I also have a very severe stutter. Bilingual stutterers who didn't learn from birth, how'd you do it? I use DuoLingo, but...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2015
1 points

Well, most of them said that it's less attractive if it's severe which is IMO kinda understandable. It's hard being with person who you can barely communicate with because he can't get his words out...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2015
1 points

In this case one has to take into account *uncertainty* as a factor. I think a main problem with stuttering, or any speech disorder really, is that upon first contact it can potentially be hard for th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2015
1 points

> Something, like a stutter, by itself is not and cannot be a turn off. I agree with the gist of your comment but if something as silly as blond hair vs brown hair can be a turn-off or turn-on, th...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance