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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2023
2 points

I hated them in college. The worst (and laziest) ones were introducing ourselves and something like “tell us the worst thing you’ve eaten” and then the professor would go student by student. By the ti...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2023
4 points

Are you from US? I have never had to do even a single icebreaker in my 5 years of university (Europe). It's puzzling to me that they are so common in colleges......

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School & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
9 points

Yeah I don't want to feel like the unique guy with a rare disability on the first day of the class....

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
5 points

Ugh. I feel for you. I graduated college last year and i’m so damn glad I never have to do another ice breaker....

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School & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
4 points

it doesn’t really make sense to do in college. icebreakers in high school i can kinda understand but no one in college really cares...

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School & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
7 points

Oh I hate ice breakers. Especially in college. I do not care who the other 30 people in class are....

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School & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
10 points

Lol, I hate icebreakers too. I always make sure to privately tell my professors on the first day after class that I have a stutter. They usually understand! Though sometimes I'm public about it when I...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
17 points

What makes that so awful is knowing everyone in the class is looking at the paragraph as you read and would notice any word substitutions....

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School & Academic LifeShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
28 points

We use to go up and down the rows when I was in class and take turns reading a paragraph from our text books. What made it worse for me was just watching it closer and closer too my turn coming. I’d f...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
13 points

You should mention to the class “hey I have a stutter” so they understand you...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
1 points

hello, 27M here 👋🏼 high school was rough for me as well, even to the point where one time we were having a class debate and one of my English teachers literally docked me (and my team) points becaus...

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School & Academic LifeAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
2 points

that's the worst way for a teacher to handle someone's speech block....

Community & SupportSchool & Work
Validation & EmpathySchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
1 points

This is the reason why I skip the first class of every semester. I can't say my name without a heavy block and if there is a crowd of students, things are even worse....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
1 points

I don't recommend you to drop it. I got extremely anxious and dropped it and now I feel like shit. I thought I would feel relieved but instead I feel like a coward and get worried thinking about the d...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencySchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
6 points

I have found that when hitting a block is to stop talking. Take a deep breath and exhale slowly then try again. I've had my share of really bad stuttering blocks and they can be quite demoralizing f...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
8 points

>and theres still no solution to speech disorders. That's simply not true. Some of us have found effective therapies that helped us achieve fluency. ​ > they have shit for depressi...

Therapy & ProfessionalSchool & Work
Positive Therapy TechniquesSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterJan 24, 2023
10 points

tomorrow I start the second year of high school

tomorrow I start the second year of high school I wanted to know how you got through high school, and if you can, tips on how to get along better with friends, girls, and have a better social life in ...

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Friendships & BelongingDating & RomanceSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
3 points

Ah, that makes sense. Some of the teachers i had in middle school and high school left a lot to be desired… it sounds like your teacher is dumb. I would try not to internalize it (i know it’s difficul...

Community & SupportSchool & Work
Validation & EmpathySchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
16 points

I once tried to answer a question in a class full of students, the block wasn’t voiceless but more like stutter and choke, not load though, for 3-4s, anyway the teacher just ignored me and said: can s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
14 points

I feel you on that bro. Hate when I stutter even when talking to the people I’m most comfortable with. Glad I’m graduating college this semester....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life