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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
2 points

I mean I used to be really shy didn't know how to express myself during social interactions at all. Idk if I really was anxious but I was really uncomfterable during conversations with people that wer...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
3 points

I really wish I could suggest something - but my stutter isn't anywhere near severe and it's only started recently at the age of 14 due to having social anxiety. I really understand your point though...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
3 points

I'm a male who stutters, but I've been terrified on going on dates for years because of my stutter. All the girls I've been with have been when I was drunk and not afraid of stuttering. Anyways, abou...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
3 points

I’m a (31 F) stutterer and before I got married I dated a fair amount. If you can, try and let your excitement and the other 95% of your personality traits lead the way! Yes you stutter and yes it’s ...

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commentr/StutterJan 4, 2020
2 points

There is a good chance the guy won't care all that much - unless he is an asshole. But since you've been talking to him for a bit, and you like him, so he is not. I am not going to say to be yourself...

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commentr/StutterJan 4, 2020
2 points

I really appreciate this. I tend to be super neurotic and it’s hard for me to be in the moment. Doing my best to remember to breathe is something I know I need to be more conscious of. Thanks!...

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Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2020
6 points

Yeah, I’ve mentioned it a couple times here and there, I’ve told him beforehand that I stutter and that I’m clumsy with my words and I stumble in my speech. He seemed okay with it and I don’t think he...

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commentr/StutterJan 4, 2020
24 points

I'm a guy, but I can tell you this: Go there, have fun and meet your friend. Try to be positive. You could tell him that you sometimes stutter if you feel like it. Try to be calm, breathe and talk slo...

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commentr/StutterJan 4, 2020
4 points

I'm still in my youth years (teenager) and I've been experiencing stutter since I was 5 years old. I've sorta come to terms and acceptance with my stutter but a lot like you, I get frustrated and mayb...

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postr/StutterJan 4, 2020
51 points

I have a date tomorrow, and I’m worried about how my stuttering is going to affect it

I have a date tomorrow, and I’m worried about how my stuttering is going to affect it Hello, I’ll start off by saying that I’m a 21 year old girl. I’ve never been on a date before but I finally have o...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2020
1 points

I suddenly become really embarrassed even at the smallest stutter which honestly makes me want to crawl up and die inside, as I feel like everyone starts to judge me or loose interest in what I have t...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2020
1 points

I'm 14 years old and can relate to this alot. I've had no previous issues with talking, but suddenly I've started stumbling little and often with my words when recalling something or talking to my fri...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2020
11 points

I’d be interested in honest answers from people about assumptions about us - like if people feel sorry for us, or think it means we are not as mentally sound or capable as other people, if they think ...

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postr/StutterJan 3, 2020
44 points

Help! Im making a documentary about stuttering

Help! Im making a documentary about stuttering Hey yall. Im graduating film school this spring, and I’ve decided to make a documentary on the topic of stuttering. I’ve lurked this subreddit and read a...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2020
5 points

I see in many ways how this is true and I agree, it's just natural instinct to choose whether on not you're engaged in a Conversation, and stuttering only makes it around 10x harder to keep someone en...

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commentr/StutterJan 2, 2020
3 points

Unfortunately mines the opposite. I'm all for having a heated / healthy discussion or debate with someone, but unfortunately without a doubt that's when my stutter seems to appear the most causing me ...

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commentr/StutterJan 2, 2020
1 points

Point number 5 is really where I'm at right now in terms of my stutteringn I'm really trying to work on improving my speech in general as I'm struggling with having social anxiety so this post is some...

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commentr/StutterJan 2, 2020
2 points

Wow, this video was truly something to me. I don't stutter, but have started to stumble on my words alot lately due to social anxiety around other people ~ which upsets me greatly as I suddenly turn s...

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Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2020
7 points

Damn dude I could've been the one that wrote this. In college I had a big friend group and while the stutter was still existent, it never affected my day to day maybe other than big presentations. Sin...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & IsolationAudience Scale & Group Size
postr/StutterJan 2, 2020
26 points

I feel like my stutter can be completely cured.

I feel like my stutter can be completely cured. I have had a stutter off and on my whole life with the cause being my social anxiety and depression. If I'm feeling bummed or lonely or super bored I ha...

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