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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2020
3 points

It's better to not feel like it than not being able to, man. Why do you feel insecure? Maybe try to sort that out since that's not a good place to be in...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 1, 2020
3 points

Is there anyone interested in video / voice chatting?

Is there anyone interested in video / voice chatting? Anyone interested in video / voice chatting in order to get over fear of talking with strangers / on the phone? I know I can use discord but would...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2020
8 points

A couple of thoughts: 1. Reading your text shows me you are really good at expressing yourself. You are able to tell a person exactly how you feel (like I could from your text) and that helps a lot ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2020
17 points

Just tell him that you have a stutter straight up. If he loses interest because of that reason then you dodged a bullet. But I’m sure if he really likes you he shouldn’t have a problem 😊...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2020
1 points

I think you will be fine, just don't shy, and don't think too much about it, like i said, join clubs please...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 30, 2020
1 points

Will be starting University (first year - Engineering) this fall and super nervous

Will be starting University (first year - Engineering) this fall and super nervous Any advice , What was your college/uni experience like ? How hard was it to make friends ? Im afraid of being lonel...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2020
3 points

Sending positive thoughts your way! Maybe even mention that you stutter prior to the interview, it will make you much more relaxed and not have to try and hide it (which raises anxiety and worsens the...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2020
3 points

Good luck dude! I feel like it will be important to ask for their patience and let them know you have a stutter right off the bat. I think they will appreciate your honesty up-front, and it may help ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2020
8 points

This right here! It’s customer service so be confident and smile when you can. If you stutter, don’t feel defeated. Employers recognize that there is some level of anxiety when doing job interviewers...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2020
7 points

You got this! Don’t get panicked when you stutter, it’s a much bigger deal to you than it is to other people....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2020
7 points

Good luck ! Dont think too much about your stutter, just focus on the money !...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2020
4 points

Stuttering in principle is not merely about anxiety or confidence. We don't know how exactly stutter is caused, but we know there are likely many possible factors involved. If anxiety and confidence ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMedicalization / Neurodiversity
postr/StutterJun 30, 2020
139 points

Alright guys tomorrow is my interview with target. I’m 21 in college and I really want this job. They increased pay to 15 per hour and I really wanna get it but I have a stutter and I’ve practicing for the interview so you fingers crossed. Wish me luck please I need it.

Alright guys tomorrow is my interview with target. I’m 21 in college and I really want this job. They increased pay to 15 per hour and I really wanna get it but I have a stutter and I’ve practicing fo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringPreparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
1 points

I am currently in a country that speaks the language that I a very beginner at. Like, I know what I want to say in my head but it's so hard to get it out and I begin to stutter. I am not sure why - is...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Propositionality & WeightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJun 29, 2020
42 points

I think my stutter is a confidence problem

I think my stutter is a confidence problem I posted on here before but I have a different question ab my stutter. My stutter is only usually the first word of the sentence. Everything after this is f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
3 points

Since I've been treated for social anxiety for 2+ years I've to say that I've seen a great improvement in not just my social health / anxiety but also my stutter. It has been life changing in a way. I...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking TherapyPositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
1 points

From my experiences, the more I talked on the phone or spoke in front of groups, the easier to got, in terms of my anxiety and my stutter. Don’t let your stutter prevent you from taking risks and se...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJun 29, 2020
2 points

Im affraid to accept some "job" opportunity bc of phone calls

Im affraid to accept some "job" opportunity bc of phone calls Hello, I have a chance to accept some voluntery work, which can have big impact on my career later (some very good references). This job i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
1 points

I try to do things out of my comfort zone but just thinking about it gives me so much anxiety. My heart beats so fast, my mind goes blank, and my speech isn't any better. Do you have any tips on how t...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
1 points

It helps for me as it calms me down because I'm usually a very, very, very hyperactive person so if I'm calmed down then I can focus on my speaking. But if you wanna try it then try it, no ones stoppi...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment