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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2024
2 points

If you're asking... It's time to mention it. Otherwise you're going to let it grow into something larger than it needs to be. Your disfluency shouldn't be a secret. It shouldn't be an issue. You're u...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2024
3 points

Always disclose it before meeting. It really makes me feel relaxed otherwise i just try to hide it and this makes it even worse....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterFeb 7, 2024
2 points

Got my immigration visa interview

Got my immigration visa interview Although I’m not much thinking about stuttering during all this but just want to know about others. How was it for you? Did you tell them in advance that you stutter?...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2024
6 points

As someone who stutters and used dating apps in the past, I say to disclose it before you meet. They most likely won't care if you stutter or not. They may be taken aback though if their first time kn...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2024
10 points

Whenever you feel comfortable to disclosure. I usually state that I stutter after I actually stutter/have a block. I usually can say it in a throw-away fashion and continue talking (the sentence now...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterFeb 7, 2024
7 points

When to tell I stutter

When to tell I stutter I met someone online and I was wondering what the best approach is to mention that I stutter. I think my stutter is mild to moderate, depending on the situation. People can defi...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2024
1 points

It’s going to come out eventually, dude. Hardest part is acknowledging that. If she likes you, she will accept it as a part of you....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2024
9 points

None of my partners have ever cared that I stutter and stuttering never impacted my dating life. I just told them early into the relationships (though they probably all noticed it by that point anyway...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersListener Reactions
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2024
3 points

disclose my dude. no one has ever cared that I stuttered and it fact they have found it attractive. it automatically makes you "safe." but if you try and play the hiding game...you will come across a...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2024
2 points

One piece of advice try not to hide your stutter. This will help u cool the nerves. Best of luck brother. 🙂...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2024
2 points

you can mention it, that you're abit nervous about your stutter and that it helps that you inform the person at the start of the date to alleviate tension. Good luck! My current fiance found my stutt...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2024
7 points

She'll find out sooner or later. Don't make stuttering the prime topic of today's discussion. If she asks about it be cool and change the topic. All the best....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterFeb 4, 2024
9 points

need someone to talk

need someone to talk hey my name is Mo i'm from Egypt living in US , my english is not bad i'm b2 level which means upper intermediate i have been stuttering since i was a child i doesn't stutter al...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2024
4 points

Yes, I stuttered badly during an interview. I felt like shit for the following two weeks, but funnily enough, I didn't secure the offer because I failed the entry test, not solely due to my stutter. ...

Social & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Disclosure & Telling OthersBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterFeb 3, 2024
92 points

Interview was a banger

Interview was a banger I feel amazing!!!!! I meet my interviewer and straight up told him that I have a speech impediment, for which he smiled and acknowledged it. I felt confident and since we were i...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2024
2 points

Like, I have to have a specific pen on my person or near me or I get EXTREMELY anxious and will drop everything I'm doing to look for it. There's nothing special about the pen in particular and I've l...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2024
2 points

hmm, never heard of it being associated with ocd. always wondered if I had that due to my extreme connection with some objects...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Medicalization / NeurodiversityDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2024
2 points

I've also been looking into this recently and from what I've seen is that it is something that someone with autism can develop. I also did not want to accept the fact, if I do have it but I am undiagn...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Medicalization / NeurodiversityDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2024
1 points

1. Disclose by directly telling or by doing voluntary repetitions 2. Practice voluntary repetitions while looking at yourself in the mirror and making phone calls. 3. Make normal eye contact, beg...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2024
4 points

> Well this caused the person to burst into laughter, and proceed to inform me I'm one of the most obvious autistic people they have ever met. This guy sounds highly unqualified to diagnose autism....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Medicalization / NeurodiversityDisclosure & Telling Others