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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
1 points

I do. I feel guilt and shame. Shame, well because I think less of myself because I stammer. Guilt because somehow, I think is my responsability that I stutter. Because I dont stutter all the times...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
1 points

You have to be comfortable in your own shoes. If it's not stuttering it'll be something else. The most perfect looking people have their demons and insecurities. You may assume the worst but people...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
3 points

I’ve been there before and I know it makes you feel awful. But I promise you you’re not a freak and it’s not as awful as it seems. Like someone else said, be nicer to yourself man. Nobody cares about ...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2025
2 points

Always be kind to yourself and try not to cling to that moment and those emotions. You’ll be aight. It happens. 🫂...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJan 26, 2025
18 points

How do you deal with being a freak

How do you deal with being a freak Yesterday at school gym after basketball training i saw these two girls weve never met b4 doing the rubberband pull up wrongly which could lead to them hurting them...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
2 points

I've seen your other post as well, here's my advice based on my experience - realistically your stuttering will always remain. What is in your control is the feelings you have towards your stuttering....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
2 points

Thank you for the input. I really appreciate the advice. I try to use the same smile and tone I do with every else. I guess I worry it would make someone feel more self conscious if I’m reacting awkwa...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
16 points

Aura? Are you for real. A part of having a stutter is knowing how to deal with embarrassing situations without losing your balance. It's probably a more important thing to master rather than speaking ...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationMindset shiftShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterJan 25, 2025
23 points

Stuttering is ruining my Life

Stuttering is ruining my Life I am 17 years old and majority of my life till now, I've gotten bullied all my life. I'm the head boy of my school and today I fumbled in giving command and speech. I can...

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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
1 points

I'm the president (head boy) of my school and today was republic day. I had to give a few commands for march past. Everything went smoothly when I had to give a command for the unveiling of the nation...

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
postr/StutterJan 25, 2025
15 points

I lost all my Aura at school today

I lost all my Aura at school today I'm the president (head boy) of my school and today was republic day. I had to give a few commands for march past. Everything went smoothly when I had to give a comm...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
2 points

I would come on to here and be like "Oh, your stutter won't stop you from achieving your dreams!" but honestly I'm going to be like that when I'm your age. It sucks overall...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
1 points

It’s likely due to the shame of not wanting to see your listener’s reaction to your repetition or silent block....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
1 points

Thank you for good words 😊, but I feel that my stuttering is a disease that I have. I had huge speech problems when I was younger and that left some scars that not be healed 😔...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2025
1 points

Woah, this is freeing to hear. Although I’m not at the acceptance stage yet, and my eye contact is horrible, but to know that there’s another side to this internal war- thank you for the enlightenment...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2025
2 points

Yessss my name is also difficult, especially with not being able to say r under some cuicumstances, rebranding to my second name wouldnt help but make it harder🤣(Eric, Eryk in my language). I guess s...

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Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
13 points

I stutter on bye too. The best part is you can stutter a bit and still manage a ba-bye. I just end up sounding posh. Sorry to joke about this. Sucks that it happened. Hope you get over it soon. Most p...

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Feared Words & NamesHumor & Community ToneShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
3 points

I do all the time. My mum has gotten better but she used to give me so much shit and 'make me aware so I can get out of the habit' by mimicking my blocking and stammering. Also, she used to say someti...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
1 points

I feel guilty that I'm making people listen to me when I stutter. I also feel guilty that I take longer to say what I want to say. Another commenter mentioned that they feel shame. I feel a lot of ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2025
2 points

Do everything you can to encourage him and don’t make him feel like he’s doing something wrong when he stutters. My family always cast my stuttering in a negative light and even sometimes would scream...

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Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+3 more