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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
1 points

That makes sense thank you. I guess maybe subconsciously I try to stop it but I feel pretty open about it so im not sure...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2025
1 points

i think he means he "overcame" how debilitating and embarrassing it was for him as a child. he usually always specifies that he overcame how he could barely say a word and other behaviours due to it. ...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterMar 25, 2025
5 points

I prefer to pretend to be mute than to stutter

I prefer to pretend to be mute than to stutter I'm 24 years old and i've been a stutterer since i was 8, more specifically dyslalia, my jaw locks, i make a lot of force and i can't get out a specific ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2025
4 points

I disclose to everyone; I can not hide my stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterMar 24, 2025
4 points

Anyone ever lie about things just because sometimes telling the truth will make you stutter?

Anyone ever lie about things just because sometimes telling the truth will make you stutter? Kind of a funny story even though it's really frustrating and I hate lying but for example I met someone ye...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMar 24, 2025
7 points

How do I stop stuttering when talking to people?

How do I stop stuttering when talking to people? When I’m alone, I talk perfectly. I don’t stutter at all, just like I never had a stutter. But when I’m talking to someone, I stutter. How do I talk...

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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2025
3 points

Don’t do what I did. I cowered in the back of the class and acted like I never knew any answers, often replaced words, hardly went to social gatherings, etc., due to my fear of stuttering. It limited ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencySchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2025
1 points

I think it's also because of expectations. Like those who you're around the most expect you to talk and behave a certain way, so it feels like you kinda have to fit yourself in that shell in order to ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2025
2 points

I used it once and haven’t touched it since. The image of myself wearing a “hearing aid” and having a stutter was ridiculous in my eyes. In all it actually allowed me to really accept my stutter and j...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2025
1 points

This is just guessing now but since it only happens with people close to you, could be because you care so much for them? So much even that you want to be "perfect" for them? Do you feel ashamed becau...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2025
5 points

It’s the r’s, h’s, and L’s for me. I worked in retail too for a while so the usual How are you? at the beginning and Have a nice day! at the end wouldn’t quite work out so I’d have to rephrase on the ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2025
3 points

***Fear-panic response – How do we minimize its impact or increase our tolerance to conditioned stimuli?*** I don’t know if we can increase tolerance directly, since the stimulus is there to precisel...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2025
3 points

***"So, if this is true, then I think addressing stuttering towards automatic processes (i.e., stuttering remission) should involve two elements:"*** 1. ***Automatic processes – How do we kickstart t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
1 points

It's not pretty privilege. It's the fact your comfortable with yourself and choose good people to be around you. I'm a 24 yo man now, but as a kid I definitely had some bullies. It didn't stop me from...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
1 points

I'm sure pretty privilege plays a part in being more confident, but from my experience, most people don't make fun of stutterers because they don't want to be perceived as an asshole. I'm a woman an...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
2 points

I feel like my innie would stutter more. I've been training for years in using avoidance techniques and breath resets. My innie would just inherit the problem without the baggage of solutions I've dev...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
2 points

Also, I’m positive that making jokes about stuttering on the Lumon property is a no so nobody would ever say anything. If Lumon does one single thing right, it’s *appearing* to be gracious....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
3 points

I definitely think pretty privilege plays a part! I was a bit of an ugly duckling growing up and was bullied relentlessly at school for my stutter. But I had a "glow up" in high school and everyone ju...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
3 points

I definitely agree with the self confidence thing. I’m a female and I would consider myself quite attractive so looks do come in handy. However I’d say I’m quite confident and extroverted and althou...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
1 points

I always have this ongoing joke among friends and family that my good looks are God’s apology for giving me a severe stutter. I do believe this privilege exists, since I’ve never really struggled maki...

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Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+2 more