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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
5 points

It made my life hell growing up and when I was in my nation's Army as a Combat Medic/Paratrooper. Now I'm at the point in my life where I can stutter and not really care. I'm currently an adjunct prof...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
2 points

You cannot shame yourself OR others into change. You can only love yourself into evolution. Don't generalize. I know what it is to have a severe stutter (along with many other mental health problems...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
5 points

You will never have control over your speech if you’re letting your speech control you. Have a relationship _in spite_ of having a speech impediment - don’t give it the control by letting it define ...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
3 points

Stutter shouldn’t and never prevent you from living happily. I know people that stutter that have succeeded in life and people around them absolutely loved them. They had good personal lives because t...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
3 points

You'll find someone...don't force it, but also don't just give up. I've been married 25 years, and the few other people I know who stutter are also married....

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
2 points

Your comments speak truth, is it possible that people are waking up to this reality of stuttering. If we keep on hearing toxic positivity we may keep on working to a dream that isn’t reality but a pri...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
3 points

I don’t understand what you’re getting at? Is me standing up for the group of people (who try to support this group) that OP told to fuck off, not support?...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
2 points

Resorting to meds for presentations and important meetings is a good idea. But I want to overcome it naturally so I don't have to rely on meds everytime something important comes up. I'll feel more fr...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
3 points

You definitely should seek therapy. Forcefully wants everybody to be positive, yes you should seek one. World runs on both positive and negative thoughts, just seeking positive will not get you somewh...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
3 points

I’m not talking like I represent all people—I was told to fuck off for thinking positively 😂 keep deciding to be miserable all you want, I’m just giving the side of the people who are positive...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
1 points

This gives me hope, thanks for this message. I'm always trying to stay positive, even if things are not changing for the better right now. I wish negative people understood this....

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
5 points

Stutter shouldn’t and never prevent you from living happily,never step back the key is self confidence there. My father was a surgeon he had stutter but his patients and colleagues loved him ,he had a...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
0 points

Thank you for saying this. I always tell people that are this negative to seek therapy because that's what they should do. They complain about this 'positive cult' but have no problem spreading their ...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
5 points

I hear you! Way too much negatively on this. Self acceptance is the absolute key. The more you avoid speaking and keep beating yourself up about the way you speak things are never going to get better,...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
2 points

I hope the therapy will help, but here's the bitter truth, Stuttering don't really have a cure, I myself went to a psychologist he said if you came to solve find a solution for it like never stutter a...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
3 points

Proud of you! Being younger than you, I'm right now seeking therapy and I will be finally treated in a few months. I hope things get better for me. Life with a stutter is not easy and it never will. B...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
1 points

Saying that 'only positive stutters are only those that don't face challenges' is generalization. My life has been a pain in the ass and most of it is because of my stutter. Still, I'm grateful for ...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
0 points

I'm sorry but I have to disagree. Saying that 'only positive stutters are only those that don't face challenges' is generalization. My life has been a pain in the ass and most of it is because of my...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
9 points

Well said and absolutely True 👏🏻👏🏻, I also struggle and sometimes think why this happened to me, am I unlucky? But the thing is it will always be there and we have to accept it and live with it, ...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2025
0 points

Why are you apologizing? I was just trying to help. None of it is your fault. The truth is that ourselves and only ourselves can change our own lives for the better....

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