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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2022
2 points

It doesn’t have to be that though. Try to find something that you need to build up your comfort with, something less nerve wracking than speaking...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2022
2 points

Most ppl, even SLPs, do not really have a true understanding of what a stutter really is. It’s presented as a comic nervousness in movies/tv (I saw a ggggggghost!) or brief uncertainty. But it ten...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2022
2 points

Same. Exactly same. Last 2 sentences are TOTALLY me (you could see my last post). I absolutely hate it as well. “I just wanna talk.” YUP. I’m on vacation (day 1) w/ lots of extended family (will be...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 19, 2022
3 points

Resources to unlearn social habits and habitual thoughts from stuttering

Resources to unlearn social habits and habitual thoughts from stuttering My speech is getting better, but I find that I'm still stuck in my old mindset and old fears. I never learned how to accept my ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2022
7 points

When I was a kid, I was very shy and wouldn't talk much. If I spoke, I would speak only to one friend (the only boy in my school who shared my religion) and I wouldn't speak in English, despite being ...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2022
11 points

Man sorry this happened to you. I online game and go on discord a lot. When people point out my "uuums" and I also cant say "L" words (I really hang onto the L and hold it to the point of LLLLLL-eon) ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2022
1 points

Most of these situations are temporary and likely wont have an impact on you. If you stutter with a subway cashier, sure she might cringe inside but it will be over after 5 minutes....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2022
3 points

I do too, that’s just more proof that stuttering is more cognitive than we think. And also that people have a big effect on our speech...

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Neurological & BrainAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2022
12 points

I think it’s us. Our mental barriers we have. Because if we don’t stutter alone then there’s a definitely a factor that’s related to other people and how we value their reactions or opinions...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 19, 2022
8 points

How can I stop caring so much about what people think?

How can I stop caring so much about what people think? Speech therapy is a little bit better this time around maybe. Anyway, I'm supposed to work on non avoidance. I've been trying to force myself to...

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commentr/StutterJun 19, 2022
3 points

I believe it has to do with you anxiety. It's kind of the same with me. The more I sort of think about or push my self not to stutter thats when I actually stutter the most. First and foremost, just r...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2022
2 points

I’m so glad I’m not the only one who stutters way worse with a mask! I know it’s a psychological thing, and it’s not really that much of a barrier, but still. There were a few times that I would stutt...

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commentr/StutterJun 18, 2022
3 points

I relate. in my experience, It doesn’t even matter if I’m trying to convince someone about something, even if I’m correct about something, the stutter will make me sound wrong. I’m passionate about t...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 18, 2022
19 points

vent | i hate my stutter

vent | i hate my stutter I have a really bad stutter wherein i’ll repeat the same word over and over or i just can’t say anything and it’s like something is stopping me from speaking. It’s super annoy...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterJun 17, 2022
2 points

It’s reasonable to be concerned. I’m going to tell you the truth. Early on, your son will have a negative experience in school. Kids are cruel. They will laugh. They’ll mock. It’s happened to most of ...

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Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2022
1 points

Thanks for your response. I'm mostly worried that my son will have negative experiences in school based on how his teachers and fellow students perceive his speech. I thought developmental stammeri...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2022
2 points

Thanks for your response. I'm mostly worried that my son will have negative experiences in school based on how his teachers and fellow students perceive his speech. I thought developmental stammerin...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2022
6 points

Not that exactly, but I hate that look of surprise and confusion that I get a lot of times. Even worse when it turns to this sort of patronizing look of understanding, like they think I'm stupid and w...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2022
3 points

I like to tell myself that, like, wow that chick and me would've really kicked it off if I didnt stutter... ha,ha... All jokes aside yeah, esp when they ask you regular questions that you cant even an...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2022
2 points

Hey Andy, Awesome post man! I saw so many similarities in the struggles that I've had with my stutter throughout my life and with what you shared. I'm glad you're turning the page and making a positi...

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