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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
3 points

Dunno about others but I love it when people ask me about it, it clears up that awkward air most times. I hate making people walk on eggshells. And I promise he won't mind talking about it : )...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2025
2 points

As a stutter myself, I tend to have to put way more inner thought when I’m stuck in a bad stretch of influency. It blocks my ability to alter my tone and make appropriate facial expressions naturally,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & WeightAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2025
5 points

Here to say how much I love this post! He will do well under relaxed environment with his speech. Stutterers tend to stutter more under stress. Just let him be. Don’t finish sentences for him. Let him...

Causes & VariabilityCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightValidation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2025
1 points

I get where you’re coming from. Perhaps start by sharing something deeply personal to you? Talking about our own personal vulnerabilities takes the relationship to new levels. Perhaps he’ll then be...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2025
2 points

I really couldn’t tell you how he is feeling inside his mind as we are all different in the way we process our thoughts/emotions when we enter a speech block we can’t seem to get out of easily. If th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2025
8 points

Firstly, the fact that you are here asking for advice/feedback on how to approach this speaks volumes as to how much you care about him, so kudos to you for researching about his condition. Stutterer...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2025
9 points

I just found this sub a few days ago and it broke my heart when I realized that many of us cannot even speak our own names. I stutter moderately but I’ve always been fluent with the consonant that my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2025
1 points

Sorry to hear that. Seem like the stutter will never go away no matter how happy you were in the first days. I thought being happy (good mental) will be one of the cures though....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2025
1 points

Yes 100% , I no longer worry about saying my own name, introducing myself etc. I'm a lot more outgoing as a result....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterNov 6, 2025
15 points

Learn to live !

Learn to live ! I hope everyone can see this post. I am a guy and i am one of you. I have been stuttering all my life and you should know how much I suffered from that. People bullied me, people laugh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2025
5 points

1. Yes i feel as if every stutter knows when they are stuttering and we each have our own ways of going through it. me personally, i can feel a stutter coming like 5 words before it comes and even bef...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2025
2 points

It doesn't make you worse than everybody else... Are you saying deaf people are worse than everybody else? Someone in a wheelchair is worse then everyone else? If you want to give yourself a value, ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2025
3 points

"Just be positive and accept it" this statement is full of ignorance and stupid. Every problem has several underlying factors that you have to solve to solve the problem. Positivity comes naturally, F...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterNov 5, 2025
3 points

I finally met a stutterer

I finally met a stutterer I have a hobby of building and selling 2nd hand computers, and I've had a stutter my entire life. One day a very friendly lady probably in her early 40s come to my front doo...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2025
1 points

I'm trying... and I think I'm not just a spectator... It's hard to express sometimes... But who cares... Just love your life guys...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterNov 5, 2025
5 points

How do you like something about yourself that you feel make you worse than everybody else?

How do you like something about yourself that you feel make you worse than everybody else? Everybody says if you just be positive and accept it then it will get better. But no matter how hard I think ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2025
1 points

My stutter is making slow but noticeable. Did not really think it possible but at 33 it is happening and is very cool. I had do a lot of work to get there but it is worth it...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Acceptance & PrideOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2025
2 points

Living life. I have a wife, kid, great job, house, friends. My stuttering became a lot better the last few years but I also had all of that during the years were my stuttering was very severe....

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2025
1 points

I'm the same. Wishing I never stuttered is like wishing to be another person. But I am who I am now and even if I had to add 100k to my mortgage to do it. I wouldnt think twice about it....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2025
4 points

Stuttering's just a part of me. There are a lot more, a runner, a gym freak, an efficient cook, a caring son and brother, gamer and many more. I know, I can't control my stutter, it comes and goes lik...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride