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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2021
2 points

Don’t look at your stutter as a problem change the way you think it’s just a normal part of your life no one is perfect. But having a stutter does make you unique! I’ve never known a stutter to be bor...

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postr/StutterOct 22, 2021
22 points

POEM “proud to stutter”

POEM “proud to stutter” i’m proud to stutter it wasn’t always this way. stuttering was a consistent and major source of shame for most of my life. i hated it and went to great lengths to hide it. i o...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2021
2 points

You don’t need to speak “properly” to have human connections. I’m pretty sure people with other conditions such as having a hearing impairment can get by. You just need people who can show you empathy...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2021
11 points

There are people who have changed their name because it was too hard for them to say. In most cases, they began having trouble in their new name as well. It's usually not the letter that's the issue, ...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2021
3 points

Perhaps you need to redefine what you mean by “ruin the whole thing”. When I think of what it means to “ruin” something, I think of destruction, and this only happens in a conversation when something...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2021
2 points

I wish most people embrace their stutter rather than victimize themselves....

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2021
7 points

You are most definitely overthinking it! But that’s ok. It’s understandable. We all can and have been guilty of over-thinking. For too long my very mild stutter held me back for years until I decided ...

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Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2021
2 points

At 42, I don't think it ever will. I've just accepted it. I hate that I have it, but until there's brain surgery made available to fix it, it's here to stay. I guess people don't tend to notice it in...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
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commentr/StutterOct 20, 2021
1 points

Totally understand that! Phone calls are so stressful especially to people you don’t know and it makes it even tougher for people who stutter. Let us know how you did! I have to keep on reminding myse...

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commentr/StutterOct 20, 2021
3 points

I think the first and huge step to do is acceptance, not as something that will last forever but like some kind weak side to work on and improve, everyone has these bigger, lesser, noticeable not noti...

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Acceptance & PrideVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2021
2 points

I personally agree with this. It feels like picking the first option is putting a bandaid on our insecurities; it is a temporary solution. Of course, being completely carefree is not always practical ...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2021
1 points

it's not caring because when you're free to be yourself you have confidence with confidence comes improve speaking with confidence comes the ability to attract others. basically what i'm saying you c...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2021
3 points

Speaking fluently would make me more carefree and remove lot of barriers and I would choose that every time and then try to build confidence myself, but since it's about confidence only then being car...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2021
11 points

Most would choose fluency of speech, and that's not a bad choice at all. But again, it attaches us to the fantasy of being free of "completely" stuttering. Whereas opting for being carefree is a more ...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2021
3 points

You know, i find your answer really on the point, great explanation, i totally agree! If only we could manage that part of ourselves that need acceptance easily...

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Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2021
6 points

That’s great that you’re talking a lot, congrats on the first day! It is kinda a fight with ourself but also about becoming one with ourself so we feel a sense of harmony...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2021
4 points

On day one with assessment, discuss with parents the possibility that he/she may stutter for life; and will be just fine if he/she does…...

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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2021
1 points

So do you mean that you are having blocks? I imagine that if you don’t notice it then you aren’t blocking that much. If you’re not very self conscious about your stuttering then what else do you hav...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2021
9 points

I could be wrong but that sounds great that you don’t notice your own disfluency. Why not just keep going with that? Everything seems to be working well for you. If you haven’t been focused on your st...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2021
3 points

I developed a stutter when I was 13, so not mid or late teens. To be completely honest, I don't have a clear cause for it, but it sucked at the time. Now it's just normal to me. I think maybe seeing a...

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