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postr/StutterDec 25, 2021
13 points

My inputs on Stuttering

My inputs on Stuttering So I am 23 M here who blocks sometimes and I this I observed in myself that if i overthink too much about stuttering and get too much identified with the label of a stutterer t...

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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2021
5 points

This was beautiful. I loved what Sanchez said where he likes the stuttering version of himself better. I also could really relate to the frustrated screams before you a ate your burger....

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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2021
5 points

A traditional Chinese motto can be made a gift for you: 'The peach and the plum do not speak, yet a path is born beneath them.' (桃李不言,下自成蹊) You gotta bear in mind that your good attributes can attr...

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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2021
2 points

> My stutter shows me who people truly are Same! If someone teases me about my stutter, I usually let them know I don't find it very funny & have a legit stutter. People sometimes don't realiz...

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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2021
3 points

Yeah and I agree with you. And I am not denying the legality of being jealous of others. But what's the point if you can't urge yourself with your jealousy to improve other attributes except fluency? ...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2021
2 points

I have been into few relationships, there were girls who cared about my stammering (they either leave or they stayed to help me out) and there were some who doesn't care about it, and still stayed. Yo...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2021
5 points

The reason why you are envious of ppl is you are comparing your defects to others' merits so O.C you will get pissed off. So try to dig out what you have got while others haven't got and you will tu...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2021
7 points

I agree 100%. It also communicates to people that you are OK with your Stutter, which makes them much more likely to respectfully listen....

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postr/StutterDec 24, 2021
42 points

Eye contact, eye contact, EYE CONTACT!!!

Eye contact, eye contact, EYE CONTACT!!! Just to get stright to the point. Always keep eye contact when you are speaking to someone. Even when you sre stuttering! Keep eye contact no matter what!!! Th...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2021
3 points

I always tell any girl I'm talking to that I have a speech disorder. Never once has it been an issue. And then I can relax and not worry about it and this helps fluency. You can't hide your stutter fo...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2021
2 points

Be relaxed and have a smiling face when you have conversation with her one to one next time. Impress her strongly with your strengths. Good looking man, kindful and skilled ,all 3 will decimate the st...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2021
2 points

before i went on my first date with my now bf i said right off the bat that i stuttered cuz i didnt want that to get in the way and it hasnt hindered anything at all. if they’re a good person and genu...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2021
1 points

She must have known your stutter already as you talked to her many times in phone. It seems she doesn't care for it. Think urself as a hero and talk slowly. Impress her that you are a nice and kind pe...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2021
0 points

I've been there but honestly it gets better! You just have to believe in yourself! Nobody is perfect! Our imperfections makes us who we are! Keep your head up!...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2021
4 points

I met my current girlfriend during a short window of fluency. Once the stutter started showing I wasn't worried because I was already fully transparent with her about it. I know people say this a lo...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2021
6 points

Most people don't care. Sounds easy but the moment I stopped giving a shit about it I realise that neither do most people, every woman I have been with has never made it an issue....

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2021
2 points

What I mean by educate is to inform her what Stuttering is, what she might see, what she will hear so that she knows what to expect. Also, I used to hate to talk about my stutter but now its educati...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2021
40 points

My 2 cents: My stutter shows me who people truly are, call it my Superpower. If she likes you for YOU then she is a keeper. If she doesn't know how to react to your stutter, then this is your oppo...

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commentr/StutterDec 22, 2021
2 points

Fk them it’s not about them it’s about you! Just be u and if someone doesn’t like it fk them...

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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2021
2 points

Confidence is saying exactly what you intended to say despite how long it takes with the stutter. Cheers to you!...

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