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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2025
3 points

Just realized you didn’t asked for advice btw 😂 sorry for the unsolicited words! Answering the question: I used to feel like this but 2 years ago I decided to confront my fears and now I’m much more...

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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2025
9 points

I’m a lawyer. Law school was rough. One professor told me I should drop out because of my speech. That made me angry enough to keep going—partly just to prove this guy wrong. Things were difficult at ...

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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2025
3 points

You can still be that person. Life is short bro. I’m not saying it’s easy but I still do these things even though I stutter. It’s who I am. You can’t hide your whole life and wait till we’re 90 and sa...

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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2025
25 points

its a constant battle between my will to speak up and my will to stay quiet to reduce the chances of a stutter happening.  however i choose the third secret path... stuttering with confidence and lett...

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Feared Words & NamesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2025
1 points

I approached my wife in the street and I stuttered. We've been together 10 years. I remember fearing if I'd stutter then asked myself the question “ would you rather potentially embarrass yourself for...

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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2025
8 points

At that momenr you can feel the whole world staring at you, not just the people around you, and it sucks. At some point in your life you understand that it is what it is. Accepting our stutter is a cu...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
2 points

That happens to me, too. I've found that on days when I feel confident and energised I stutter less than on days when I'm run down and feeling overwhelmed. So now I focus on getting good quality slee...

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commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
2 points

I am so so so happy for you! That is incredible, isn't it? When we push through and get everything out despite what would hinder us. That's fantastic. That, that's so great. And yes, you represented u...

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commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
2 points

Then move on to a girl who doesnt care. I had dates with plenty of girls that dont give a shit about stuttering. Girls at the club lost interest bc of stuttering? They also loae interest if they dont...

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commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
1 points

My best friend makes fun of my stutter a lot. It's actually hilarious and is one of the only person I let do it bc the way he jokes about is so fucking wholesome and funny at the same time...

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commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
2 points

totally. My guess on why this works is that we're taking power away from our stutter, and giving ourselves control over it. This is mostly true for people with situational stutter - it gives us confid...

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commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
1 points

Do you believe if I say voluntarily stuttering nearly cured me....

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commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
1 points

Sadly you will need to live the rest lf your life with it, it's just the unfortunate reality to the situation. There's a small chance you'll just grow out of it but the closer you get to your 20's the...

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commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
1 points

As a step beyond this, I also use foreign languages as i need. It's like "Do you want some (instead of milk)xxx?" But i overcame my stuttering (%70) so I use this less than usual...

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commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
1 points

The alternative is shifting your mindset to accepting yourself for where you’re at right now and accepting the fact that improvement may never happen, and that’s OK....

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Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
2 points

Your description seems very binary to me. On / Off. Stutter / Fluent. My view is more of a spectrum. Everyone has disfluencies of some nature, here or there. PWS have disfluency constantly, or near ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
3 points

There's laughing 'with yourself' that is helpful and keeps us self-aware and grounded. But there is also laughing 'at yourself' which is self-destructive and bitter. We all make mistakes and have str...

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Humor & Community ToneAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterNov 14, 2025
3 points

Lighten up

Lighten up Is stuttering funny? I must admit it can make me laugh, at times. And when I'm in that 'mode' of self-parody, the fear, the stress, the stutter, is no more. ...

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commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
6 points

Wow, what an amazing, inspirational story! Thanks for sharing your journey! You’re absolutely correct! YOU are not your stutter and it DOES NOT define you as a person. Your persistence and hard work...

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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
0 points

How do you reconcile accepting yourself as a person who stutters while striving for fluency, which is the absence of stuttering? It's like telling someone it's ok to stutter but the goal of the therap...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride