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Just realized you didn’t asked for advice btw 😂 sorry for the unsolicited words! Answering the question: I used to feel like this but 2 years ago I decided to confront my fears and now I’m much more...
I’m a lawyer. Law school was rough. One professor told me I should drop out because of my speech. That made me angry enough to keep going—partly just to prove this guy wrong. Things were difficult at ...
You can still be that person. Life is short bro. I’m not saying it’s easy but I still do these things even though I stutter. It’s who I am. You can’t hide your whole life and wait till we’re 90 and sa...
its a constant battle between my will to speak up and my will to stay quiet to reduce the chances of a stutter happening. however i choose the third secret path... stuttering with confidence and lett...
I approached my wife in the street and I stuttered. We've been together 10 years. I remember fearing if I'd stutter then asked myself the question “ would you rather potentially embarrass yourself for...
At that momenr you can feel the whole world staring at you, not just the people around you, and it sucks. At some point in your life you understand that it is what it is. Accepting our stutter is a cu...
That happens to me, too. I've found that on days when I feel confident and energised I stutter less than on days when I'm run down and feeling overwhelmed. So now I focus on getting good quality slee...
I am so so so happy for you! That is incredible, isn't it? When we push through and get everything out despite what would hinder us. That's fantastic. That, that's so great. And yes, you represented u...
Then move on to a girl who doesnt care. I had dates with plenty of girls that dont give a shit about stuttering. Girls at the club lost interest bc of stuttering? They also loae interest if they dont...
My best friend makes fun of my stutter a lot. It's actually hilarious and is one of the only person I let do it bc the way he jokes about is so fucking wholesome and funny at the same time...
totally. My guess on why this works is that we're taking power away from our stutter, and giving ourselves control over it. This is mostly true for people with situational stutter - it gives us confid...
Do you believe if I say voluntarily stuttering nearly cured me....
Sadly you will need to live the rest lf your life with it, it's just the unfortunate reality to the situation. There's a small chance you'll just grow out of it but the closer you get to your 20's the...
As a step beyond this, I also use foreign languages as i need. It's like "Do you want some (instead of milk)xxx?" But i overcame my stuttering (%70) so I use this less than usual...
The alternative is shifting your mindset to accepting yourself for where you’re at right now and accepting the fact that improvement may never happen, and that’s OK....
Your description seems very binary to me. On / Off. Stutter / Fluent. My view is more of a spectrum. Everyone has disfluencies of some nature, here or there. PWS have disfluency constantly, or near ...
There's laughing 'with yourself' that is helpful and keeps us self-aware and grounded. But there is also laughing 'at yourself' which is self-destructive and bitter. We all make mistakes and have str...
Lighten up
Lighten up Is stuttering funny? I must admit it can make me laugh, at times. And when I'm in that 'mode' of self-parody, the fear, the stress, the stutter, is no more. ...
Wow, what an amazing, inspirational story! Thanks for sharing your journey! You’re absolutely correct! YOU are not your stutter and it DOES NOT define you as a person. Your persistence and hard work...
How do you reconcile accepting yourself as a person who stutters while striving for fluency, which is the absence of stuttering? It's like telling someone it's ok to stutter but the goal of the therap...