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postr/StutterJan 16, 2025
42 points

Date apologizes in advance for possibly laughing at my speech

Date apologizes in advance for possibly laughing at my speech Hi everyone, I’d like to share something that has made me quite annoyed recently, and I’d like to hear what you think. Met a girl onlin...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2025
1 points

i know i’m late but my boyfriend of 2 years has a stutter, at first i thought he was joking about it (we met on hinge and called each other on the phone) bc he jokes around a lot but he was serious. a...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2025
1 points

Hey! Some of the nicest people in the world stutter. Everyone, stuttering or not, gets nervous talking to a crush. Just be yourself. There’s absolutely no problem putting it out on the table by saying...

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commentr/StutterJan 13, 2025
2 points

Well to me it's a little annoying that almost all of them say they found their partner by online dating and have been "married/together for 7+ years" Dating apps were drastically different back then...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2025
2 points

Go for it! Don’t hold yourself back from talking to him and asking him out. If he rejects you because of your stutter, then you know he’s not the guy for you. Remember, those who mind don’t matter and...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2025
2 points

If you think he’s into you which more than likely he is 99.999% of the work is done go for it! We all deal with something for all you know he probably stutters also...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2025
3 points

tell him you stutter and then ask him out for coffee. you are letting your stutter run the show. we all know how that goes.........

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2025
3 points

I understand. For the right guy, you won’t have to worry and you won’t feel the need to change how you are!! There are some guys who won’t be accepting of it, I’ve been there and it hurts. But that’ll...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2025
4 points

Hey, I completely understand what you’re going through! I’ve had many crushes and sometimes stutter way more around them when I’m nervous. Sometimes I tell people I stutter, sometimes I don’t. The key...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2025
6 points

I have a boyfriend. I stutter and I talk soo much. Don’t let it hold you back. If he rejects you or thinks you’re weird that’s his issue....

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2025
11 points

I was in i similar position, i just did it. Went to her, made small talk and asked her out and voilà i made a gf. Now it’s your turn. You’ll regret it if you don’t Don’t let the stutter be a hindran...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2025
26 points

Don't self reject yourself. If he's right for you, he wouldn't mind your stutter...

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postr/StutterJan 11, 2025
36 points

I want to start talking to a guy But embarrassed to stutter

I want to start talking to a guy But embarrassed to stutter There's a cute guy who works near my place of work and he comes here sometimes. I feel like he's into me and I want to start talking to him ...

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2025
2 points

Nope, he was shy so the vast majority of first moves were done by me. We started off as friends, so it all happened naturally and gradually, which made it way less scary. I totally agree though, tha...

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commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
1 points

Let me ask you this though, who made the first move? It was the guy, wasn't it? Not trying to downplay your bad experiences with stuttering as we all have them but, for women in the dating world, I ...

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commentr/StutterJan 2, 2025
0 points

Did your dad stutter? Mine didn't. Neither parents. Or siblings. A cousin of my Dad's had something similar but our stutters presented very differently. I'm 42, I chose to not have children or find a ...

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postr/StutterJan 2, 2025
15 points

How can I get married? 'My son will be the same, I don't want to give hell to another one because of my cursed genetics'. how should I deal with this?

How can I get married? 'My son will be the same, I don't want to give hell to another one because of my cursed genetics'. how should I deal with this? Title. btw/ sorry for my English...

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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2025
1 points

Not really. I found him on r/r4r. Usually people on there are just looking for a hookup or fwb but if you meet them and the vibes go well, their initial intention might change. It’s basically like fin...

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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2025
2 points

At a party gala after a university debate we were part of. I was her Chair, meaning she debated and I was in the jury. I thought she was gorgeous but I had 0 chances with her. As I said, on the final ...

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commentr/StutterJan 1, 2025
5 points

I’ve Stuttered for as long as I can remember. We met on the bus yard during my senior year of high school and became friends. We lost touch for a bit, but we ended up in the same lab in college and th...

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