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commentr/StutterNov 25, 2024
1 points

That's a good shout. I never want to cause a fuss so I don't mention it before hand, but it would help so in future I'll give them a heads up - Thank you 🙏...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2024
5 points

I’m going through the job search right now so I totally understand. In this case, I would email them. In the future, if they initially email you to set up an interview you should tell them then! That ...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Advice RequestsDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2024
2 points

"Dear xx, I hope this email finds you well. I am xx who interviewed for the production role over the phone earlier. In case I may not have presented myself nor come off prepared as well as I should'...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2024
6 points

Thank you- that really helps my peace of mind In person I can mask quite well, but if I find myself stuttering I also acknowledge that I am and ask for patience. Like you, that usually works and the ...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2024
22 points

I'm sorry this happened. I know how it feels. Usually, when I start stuttering, I will immediately stop and call attention to it. I shouldn't apologize for having a stutter, but I do. I will say somet...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
3 points

If they are truly your friends, they won't care and will love you no matter how you speak. Maybe you could tell them about your stutter over text beforehand, so they know to be patient with you :) an...

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Friendships & BelongingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2024
1 points

Easier said than done but going into an interview open about my stutter and attempting to frame it in a positive way has worked for me in the past. I wish you luck. Interviews are difficult for everyo...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2024
2 points

Hey there, chin up! I was in the same boat 3 years ago. What helped me was accepting my stutter. I disclosed to the interviewers that I have a stutter and hope they are okay with it....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2024
2 points

Yeah I am going to know just don’t know when, it’s not the sorta thing you can just drop into conversation randomly...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
3 points

Oh absolutely. But you want to weed out people like that. Be up front, let them know what they're getting into. Don't catfish. You can 100% find someone, multiple people, who are okay with it. I mat...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
1 points

I personally disclose, I often get looks of confusion with my secondary motions, which leads to me telling them that it’s a stutter and they’re no longer confused lol. The way I see it too, it’s a way...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
2 points

I'm considering doing this in the future, but some of them would refuse to meet me because of this haha...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
2 points

I disclose my stutter on my dating profile, and I also make sure to mention it to any matches before we meet up. I don't want to surprise them with something bad, I wanna get the bad out of the way ea...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2024
2 points

If you are good in your programming skills, then despite the matter u stutter or not you definitely land a good opportunity. Personally i used to tell the recruiter beforehand that I stutter and let m...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2024
33 points

Yes! I have a hard time saying my name outright, but can easily say it when I preface “my name is…”...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2024
4 points

Practice, practice , practice Do a mock interview with a friend For me, I cannot hide my stutter so I disclose and when I do, I get it out there and once I do that, I can now focus on the question...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2024
2 points

You can tell him you stutter. Its not the end of the world and you dont have anything to be afraid or to be embarassed about. As a guy, having a gf who stutters isn't a big deal at all. If he is go...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2024
1 points

Honestly dude, I think it'd be best if you just told her. If she thinks it's a dealbreaker, it's on her, but at least you tried to be honest. If you keep the same scared mentality going forward, every...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2024
1 points

Depending on how many interactions I have with said person, my frequency of stuttering within our interactions, or the occasion I find myself in, like an interview or public speaking. Usually my stutt...

Social & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Disclosure & Telling OthersSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2024
1 points

I just cut myself off when I stutter and tell them, "I have a stutter by the way" and continue with what I'm saying....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution