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commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
1 points

I feel you bro. I used to say the same thing about my stutter, but it really eats you alive if you let it. I even tried therapy, and honestly it didn’t do much besides making me feel worse. What actua...

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Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterDec 5, 2025
2 points

How did you guys get through high school with stutter?

How did you guys get through high school with stutter? I’m a senior in high school, and I graduate in like idk, 6-7 months (I didn’t Intend on the meme) Yeah as I said I’m in grade 12 and my stutter...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationAcceptance & PrideSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
3 points

I would also suggest some therapy. It is truly possible to reframe your thoughts and change your entire life. I’m a moderate stutterer, I stutter in most of my sentences, and I stutter fully and openl...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Trauma & PsychologicalAcceptance & PrideSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
6 points

I have control of my stutter 80-90% of the time. What that means to me is that if I stutter, I stay composed and continue with limited blocks going forward. There are hours and the odd day where I los...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
4 points

I'm 40 now (m) The Netherlands. I never stutter anymore. In highschool i couldn't even speak. I sing and this helped. I still have fear of speaking. Everybody tells me they cannot hear i stuttered....

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
5 points

I found relief from stuttering when I discovered that my brain is wired differently than a fluent brain. When I came across the research on the Valsalva response I was able to achieve fluency. I neede...

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Neurological & BrainFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
1 points

You are amazing! I am a speech-language pathologist and have the exact same mentality. Stuttering is normalized in my space and whenever I visit other spaces. Crazy how little reactions you get ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
1 points

I tune into my solar plexus area. Notice any tension, take a few slow breaths if needed. Be positive about what I am going to say. If I stammer, that's ok too...

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Mindfulness & BreathingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
2 points

I’m a stuttering lawyer. I say what I want when I want to. I stutter in almost every sentence. And I still go to court in front of a judge. And you know how I do that? I’ve accepted my stutter. I do...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
3 points

You can absolutely work on reducing your stuttering, using fluency techniques if you need to, or masking it if you can. The problem is that stuttering is a neurological disorder—so you'll never be com...

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Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
5 points

You can’t fully restructure the neural pathways involved in speech and timing to the point where stuttering permanently disappears. The brain *can* adapt (neuroplasticity), but we don’t have a way to ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
2 points

If you want to accept great, if not there are ways to manage it and managing it I have in an abundance! I don’t think I will ever be a perfect fluent speaker but I know I will never have a severe bloc...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
0 points

So if I don’t stutter when using fluency shaping techniques, is that not a “cure”? In the NSA, they speak about overcoming stuttering, why would they do this then? And your point is very much true as ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
33 points

Stuttering is neurological and does not have a cure that will work for most people. Speech therapy has an 84% relapse rate.  Accepting your stutter is not about admitting failure. Accepting your stu...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
postr/StutterDec 5, 2025
0 points

Don’t Accept Your Stutter

Don’t Accept Your Stutter Disclaimer: Depending on your severity People who are paralyzed sometimes try to walk again, walking fluently. People who have are bad at a trade or skill, don’t accept t...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
1 points

The valsalva concept will help people with a very classic blocking stutter that is rooted in fear. Learning more will teach you tangible steps how to “accept your stutter”. There are skills one can...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
0 points

Been there, done that. College times were “funny” for me, but after college it is better but still sometimes there are some moments. As user Trman09 said. Fuck them, I literally just woke up one da...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
5 points

Well, my mom was called once to school by a substitute teacher when I was in fifth grade cause apparently I couldn’t read 🤷🏻‍♂️ She wasn’t convinced I was a stutterer Also being laughed at during ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterDec 5, 2025
75 points

This mindset can transform the lives of people who stutter, too.

This mindset can transform the lives of people who stutter, too. ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2025
2 points

Found a summary of the book: "Life on Delay" by John Hendrickson is a memoir that delivers hard-won, practical advice for stutterers: Accept permanence. Letting go of the "fluency fantasy" is the s...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride