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postr/StutterNov 8, 2015
13 points

Why I Don't Advertise Anymore

Why I Don't Advertise Anymore I've had a significant stutter for as long as I can remember. When I was a kid in speech therapy, my speech therapist always told me to "advertise" that I have a stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2015
2 points

I came to a point that it doesn't bother me anymore that people lift an eye brow, or look a bit strange when they hear me stutter. I can imagine that they do that. I can be totaly fluent for a while ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2015
2 points

What I mean by curing it is, making it pretty much invisible. Look at Emily Blunt, she had a stutter, check her interviews now, flawless. I mean to a point where I can just talk without having to thin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2015
4 points

There is no cure for stuttering. Stutterers will always be stutterers. People can sometimes reduce stuttering by eliminating unnecessary anxiety and learning to stutter more efficiently, which makes b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
postr/StutterNov 3, 2015
4 points

People's facial expressions throw me off. Anyone else get this?

People's facial expressions throw me off. Anyone else get this? I can speak to my sister with like 90%-95% fluency, but when im talking to a stranger or specific people I find it much harder. My best ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2015
1 points

I generally smile and say I stutter if somebody brings it up or asks me what's wrong. Otherwise I just smile and carry on talking....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterOct 31, 2015
15 points

How I mostly beat my stutter

How I mostly beat my stutter Ok. I've been wanting to post this for a while. Forward: please don't read this like a humblebrag or something - it's not meant to be, and this is a throwaway. I remember ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentGenetic & Family Factors+3 more
postr/StutterOct 22, 2015
11 points

What had the biggest positive impact on you opening up about your stuttering and eliminating avoidances? Any successful stories or defining moments that stood out to you?

What had the biggest positive impact on you opening up about your stuttering and eliminating avoidances? Any successful stories or defining moments that stood out to you? For previously covert adults ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+2 more
postr/StutterOct 21, 2015
0 points

Law 18: Do Not Build Fortresses to Protect Yourself

Law 18: Do Not Build Fortresses to Protect Yourself Social avoidance feels safe. But in reality being closer to more people is safer. Stuttering for me was partly about avoiding being rejected. > ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterOct 15, 2015
4 points

Confused, chance to change my whole life but ..

Confused, chance to change my whole life but .. Hello guys, Im having a very intense stuttering and thats ruinning my life in many parts, i"ve lost any respect for myself. When im facing anything, i'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2015
1 points

Aw hey man, don't be so down on yourself. A lot of stutters have physical tics attached to our disfluency. I, for one, can't keep eye contact, whatsoever. I've tried very hard to train myself out of i...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Physical TensionHiding & ConcealmentFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2015
2 points

I say um all the damn time. I mainly do it because I silently block for fucking ages and I need to let people know I'm still in the conversation. That being said I pull faces when I block now so I'l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringPhysical TensionSuicidal Ideation & High Distress+1 more
postr/StutterOct 12, 2015
9 points

Who else hasn't stuttered for most of their life?

Who else hasn't stuttered for most of their life? Because of issues that I would rather not discuss, I developed a stutter (non-existent to extremely severe depending on the situation) around two year...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+3 more
postr/StutterOct 12, 2015
2 points

How do I deal with the fear of not being able to get a word out at all?

How do I deal with the fear of not being able to get a word out at all? I've been a covert stutterer for as long as I've stuttered (around 2 years). However, I've been trying to desensitize myself to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2015
3 points

Your stuttering is mild enough that you are able to hide it in your basement. For many of us that isn't possible. edit: > YOU SHOULD WANT/NEED to talk to someone. This got me thinking. I don't ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2015
1 points

My stutter is something that makes me unique. It's something I love working on improving, but hate when I let it limit something I want to say or do. I believe my stutter is a very small part of my ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2015
1 points

Man I was a master of substitution a year ago - now I just feel like shit whenever I catch myself doing it. It's the avoidance tactic that I'm working on stopping the most. You definitely cannot a...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2015
2 points

My first bf was a good friend of mine before we get a relation. He didn't mind at all. I was also a covert stutterer, but good friends knew about it, also he knew. When I met my second bf I was ope...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & RomanceHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2015
4 points

I've been married now for forever, but back when I was younger, I was mostly covert, meaning that I went through great lengths to keep my stutter a secret. This basically meant guys were only meeting ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2015
2 points

I don't believe that stuttering is something that you overcome, rather it's something that you learn to deal with. I have a moderate stutter and until this year, I always used to hide it. I'm 35. It f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career+2 more