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postr/StutterJan 27, 2017
9 points

Your most annoying social situation to deal with?

Your most annoying social situation to deal with? Mine is trying to order a drink at a busy bar. The bartender looks at you, waiting for a drink order, and the stammer block hits. The bartender think...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2017
1 points

Yeah, interesting. You're a covert stutterer. All of the success, high-bar setting you're talking about, is dependent, or you feel it's dependent, on you hiding your stutter. I don't think it's h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityMeds & Substances
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingHelpful Med Outcomes+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2017
7 points

I wish I had realized earlier on that most people don't care at all if you stutter, and those who do probably aren't folks you want to be around. Once I was more upfront and comfortable about it, and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2017
10 points

Hehe, i guess its the most common type and the easiest to recognize :P People who block (myself included) become very proficient at hiding their blocking and are constantly switching their words so i ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2017
1 points

I don't really people think I stutter because of how well i hide it.But that ends up being a bad thing when I do slip up and stutter because then people think I just forgot what I was tryna say and st...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2017
2 points

I don't go to Starbucks but yeah, I've found my own name can be hard sometimes. I've gotten away with it by saying "I'm Dana" but omggoood sometimes a person will repeat it like it's my actual nam...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2017
1 points

I do the same.. Something easy... then I have to pay attention to the name I gave... sometimes I forget and stand there looking dumb....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJan 20, 2017
32 points

Starbucks employee mocks customer with stutter. Really sad to see people with stutter being treated this way. Does anyone else have trouble giving their name when ordering coffee?

Starbucks employee mocks customer with stutter. Really sad to see people with stutter being treated this way. Does anyone else have trouble giving their name when ordering coffee? ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentStigma & BullyingFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2017
1 points

Hey good for you man. I'm pretty good in school as well. I mean like most stutterers I'm actually doing well in all areas of life EXCEPT for my social life. I don't really tell myself I'm not good ...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2017
2 points

This comment in particular is the one I was referencing: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5f51rq/i_am_a_loser_i_just_cant_break_this_cycle/dahnqct/ I didn't see the one suggesting deaf women,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2017
1 points

I can confirm, mindfulness and a proper daily meditation practice has GREATLY increased fluency and made me care less about how other people think of me. Also eradicates anxiety overtime with a decent...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2017
1 points

It's for a good reason that people who stutter are skeptical of these miracle cures. In the past many snakeoil salesmen and scammers have preyed on the desperation in many of us in finding a cure....

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Cure Claims / Alt-TreatsHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
1 points

2nd point.. Exercise, Sleep and good nutrition will help. I know it sounds sugar sweet, but it's true. maybe a dopamine antagonist, but side effects can be a lack of motivation and depression. ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Energy & Biological RhythmsHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2017
2 points

Same. When I bought my phone, the salesmen started up the process of that new version of Siri where they get to know your name and voice, and he did it without asking. Lol I just froze up and told him...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2016
1 points

Yeah, when we use something as a trick, it's possible that it ends up a part of our stutter. It's actually rather insidious that way....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2016
1 points

Do you personally? I remember myself hiding my stutter and being ''100% fluent'' during a convo but still feeling like shit/toxic afterwards....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2016
1 points

I'm 100% hiding it. The people closest to me with whom I talk constantly will more than likely notice *something* in my speech patterns that's off. All that I've heard is that (at my worst) I'll pause...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2016
1 points

If "virtually" no one knows you stutter, then you're either lying to yourself or you're hiding from everyone around you. Doesn't really sound that appealing to be honest....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2016
3 points

This AMA is so awkward. This is all common knowledge lol. I don't struggle. I train my communication skills daily. I am de-sensitizing myself to talking under any context without using tricks or ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAdvice Requests+1 more
postr/StutterDec 16, 2016
10 points

I'm a successful, white-collar professional who "has it all", and the catch? (Virtually) no one knows I stutter. AMA.

I'm a successful, white-collar professional who "has it all", and the catch? (Virtually) no one knows I stutter. AMA. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career