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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2025
0 points

Why are you saying it's judgmental, combative and argumentative...since you have stuttering and it's just something has ruined your life and will ruin your children too if you bring them.....it's true...

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2025
1 points

I have so empathy cuz life is hard without fluency I have been there a lot.....look how many have come to a point what I said it's true....

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2025
0 points

The truth for some people are hard to accept....everything I said were true and Mr.British were seeking for attention from the members cuz he is about bring a child while he has a severe stuttering an...

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2025
-1 points

So that's truth....if you have a stuttere, you will always have that desire to fulfill your life but you will never be able to do that cuz of stuttering....you were mad cuz you guys are frustrated bec...

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2025
6 points

That wasn’t the only thing you said. You repeatedly told people that if they reproduce, they destroy the life of the child and are horrible people... Because then the child stutters....

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2025
1 points

I have, and will admit to clinging to keep a dead relationship alive past what was clearly the end to avoid going through the struggles of dating again....

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2025
2 points

I agree. I don't want prevent other people from having kids but personally no way I am having kids after what I have been through. No one deserves that pain. I am not taking a risk. Adoption is for me...

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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2025
1 points

I can really relate to you except I'm a little older. I think some of this is innate personality traits mixed with deeply rooted behavior patterns. Like I can't change my personality to be a golden re...

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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2025
1 points

This has pretty much explained my life.. I am early 30s & could've gone much farther in life, it's a combination of the stutter being pretty bad + overall personality tendencies. Then as you get older...

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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2025
8 points

I think you are getting downvotes only because this is a highly polarized & emotional subject. I've seen quite a few posts here about the debate to have kids despite the strong possibility of passing ...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2025
3 points

I'm sorry for what you went through, it's really very difficult, but I know that despite the setbacks we deserve to exist and find our place in the world, the people who should have more empathy and r...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2025
1 points

Same to me, the uncertainty of the stutterer future is just crazy...but you described it amazingly animals and nature is the pure love and relaxation. Living in own little universe and life just the w...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2025
9 points

Looks like you've got some deep issues. Won't be easy to overcome but it's doable. I attend therapy and generally I'm getting better and better but there are still days I just feel like a total loser...

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postr/StutterSep 27, 2025
17 points

Why do I stay a loser and don't change?

Why do I stay a loser and don't change? Why do I like lying on my couch and surfing the net on my phone all day, everyday for the past 7 years? It started at 16 and I'm 25 now. I only stop to eat som...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2025
2 points

My mother told me that the only speech therapist she consulted told her I'd grow out of it and recommended no treatment. She was probably in denial and wanted to hear that. You need to get a goo...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2025
2 points

I chickened out of this one just wasn't up to such a big event today, which is why I'm still only making around 20/hour as a borderline middle aged person, lots of chickening out of life in general, w...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2025
1 points

The most challenging stuttering experience I faced was between the ages of 5 and 10. Kids would laugh at me both in school and outside of it. They also verbally bullied me about my stuttering, and som...

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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2025
1 points

I have graduated 1 years and half ago, applied to near 1900 jobs in my country, got about 30 calls interviews, failed all, got 1 single physical interview, failed also. once they hear me stutterring t...

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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2025
1 points

I am surprised as well. in the past I always had blocks with vowels only, now I am experiencing blocks with random letters frequently like M, N, S, T, K. I never had issues with those letters before...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2025
1 points

Thats all childhood, the inconsistency of stuttering make it harder for us, people see us as a con artists. Atleast mute doesn't face hatred!!!!!...

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