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commentr/StutterJan 2, 2019
4 points

It’s not weird at all to want to talk to others who share the same struggles as you!! People who don’t stutter can’t imagine how it affects so many parts of our lives. The suggestions above are great....

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postr/StutterJan 2, 2019
17 points

I want someone I can talk to

I want someone I can talk to I stutter and I have done my whole life. I am 15 and recently have just wanted someone that I could talk to about it that understands what it's like and without them judgi...

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commentr/StutterJan 2, 2019
1 points

Sounds like you have people in your life that genuinely don't care about your stutter. The only person that cares is you. You are your own enemy. The best thing I've learned in speech therapy is ac...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2018
10 points

the amount of time i've been told this, jesus christ. i find it offensive somewhat for some reason nowadays, because of how much i've been told this...

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commentr/StutterDec 29, 2018
1 points

I hear ya!! It’s a lot easier to write advice than actually do it, I know. But, just keep at it!! I still definitely have moments (or days) that are worse than others, but at the age of almost 37 I’m ...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2018
1 points

Thx! Japan was a long time ago ... 🤔. Best of luck to you and try to be your own best fan. ...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2018
3 points

Yeah! Like you can add also when you tell them, "if you have any questions, you're welcome to ask." Who knows? Maybe you'll learn something about them. I remember I went on a date with a girl and when...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2018
3 points

I love these succes stories man! Damn 23 years? congratz!! I agree that telling someone is a great method to weed out the superficial folks but then again, no one likes rejection. But I'll bite the ...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2018
3 points

I agree that it's not something that should be a complete dealbreaker, but I don't think I would like the "...okay?" reaction either. I would like it if dates/partners are curious about it and ask me ...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2018
12 points

You'll be amazing how many people don't give a shit that you stutter. Like you can be like "hey by the way, just to let you know, I stutter so if you see me stumble on some words, that's why." and the...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2018
14 points

I like the way you think dude! Thanks for the input and congratz on the wife, hope you guys have a happy new year :) ​...

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commentr/StutterDec 27, 2018
2 points

Yep or "I thought you'd forgotten what degree you were doing! HAHA" or "Were you trying to remember how old you are? HAHA". I can tell people are usually well-meaning trying to break the ice with a jo...

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commentr/StutterDec 27, 2018
1 points

Aw, thank YOU! <3 That's super kind of you. I... am frequently surprised how much I have to say about stuttering. I didn't really start "talking" to fellow PWS 'til recently, and I guess 28 years ...

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commentr/StutterDec 26, 2018
2 points

Thank you for the kind words! It’s a constant struggle and some days are better than others. Knowing there is support out there means a lot. ...

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postr/StutterDec 26, 2018
68 points

Found this sub by accident. I have no reason to be here other than to say that ..

Found this sub by accident. I have no reason to be here other than to say that .. Your strength is an inspiration and I wish you all the very best for a happy and stutter-free 2019. Stay strong. ...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2018
3 points

Merry Christmas! I don’t stutter myself but my spouse does. ...

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postr/StutterDec 24, 2018
73 points

I wish this subreddit was more active.

I wish this subreddit was more active. I remember when I first discovered this place. It made me realize that I wasn't alone. I've never met another sutterer IRL. I just always assumed I was a weirdo ...

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commentr/StutterDec 24, 2018
1 points

I wish someone would call my stuttering cute. I'm sure your girlfriend means well....

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commentr/StutterDec 23, 2018
8 points

I’ve had many girlfriends say this to me before. I think it comes from being a man and having a perceived weakness in the form of a stutter. Not that stuttering is weakness, but it’s endearing to the...

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postr/StutterDec 22, 2018
2 points

Am I just really lucky?

Am I just really lucky? My intention is not to brag or make other feel down about their current situation; I truly wonder if I am just a lucky minority, or if most of the complaints are just the vocal...

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