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commentr/StutterAug 16, 2014
1 points

Indeed. It gave me nightmares in school. Also, introductory hand-shakes are always awkward with me because I almost never say my name and rely on someone else to do it for me. Otherwise the hand-shake...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2014
3 points

The many wonderful girls I met when I was young (18 and 23) I fell so in love with them as I was drinking and dancing with them. Whenever I was sober I was too ashamed to call them. I am so sorry for ...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2014
5 points

I feel really uncomfortable talking to others who stutter. It makes me want to rip my skin off, but I couldn't say why. I guess I just hate seeing what I probably look like on the other side....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterAug 14, 2014
2 points

In need of a little advice, words of wisdom, support & all the above.

In need of a little advice, words of wisdom, support & all the above. I'm at a point where I feel like my speech has gotten really bad. Like I can barely say two words. I attribute this to the fac...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2014
3 points

Finished this book a few nights ago, and it was uncanny how much I could relate to the author's writing. Growing up, I found myself in lots of similar situations, such as being terrified of introduci...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2014
2 points

its sounds like you dont really want fluency, you want to be able to not feel so embarrassed and having talking be so hard anymore. Well you can do that without haing to be fluent. Those issues are in...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2014
1 points

I've been having a negative week (i.e. One where I hate myself for stuttering), and reading this was fucking gold. Thank you for writing this, you've helped uplift me! ...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2014
5 points

I was always too ashamed of my speech to join in the past, and now that I've matured enough to want to join a community of PWS, I've found that the country I live in has absolutely zero networks for s...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2014
5 points

Well, it depends on how bad it is and how well you take it. For me it was quite bad, basically stuttering was causing stress, strong anxiety and embarassment in almost every speaking situation I got. ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterAug 4, 2014
24 points

For Non-Stutterers: What it's like to be a Stutterer

For Non-Stutterers: What it's like to be a Stutterer If you’ve witnessed a person suffering from a stutter, had difficulty understanding their condition, or just thought about what a stutterer is actu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2014
1 points

I think a lot of people feel this way. I do myself. I think this feeling stems from a shame we feel about stuttering....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 1, 2014
2 points

well thoughts and feelings are two different things. I am a rather severe stutterer so ive always acklowedged and accepted that I stutterered so there was no "fear" of whether i would block or not. I ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2014
2 points

Do you ever feel shameful or embarrassed when blocking? Is it sometimes hard to watch videos of other people blocking in social situations or something similar?...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2014
1 points

lol i had a similar car experience, it was the worst stutter i ever had. Spent a good 5 seconds trying to say my name to a girl's dad. ...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Personal StoriesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2014
4 points

My favorite moment to look back on was when I was at a horse camp when I was 12 and the son of the man who ran it was flirting with me on a trail ride. After he pointed out some facts about the trail ...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Personal StoriesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2014
4 points

Threads like this is the best. Training for a lifeguard as when i had some mild stuttering when introducing myself to another person after being in the water. After some stuttering he comments "Man y...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Personal StoriesShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 28, 2014
6 points

not sure what's going on with my voice

not sure what's going on with my voice As long as I can remember, I've had these problems, but in recent years it's been getting a lot worse. I don't know if you could properly call this a stutter, bu...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Repetitions & ProlongationsShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 24, 2014
1 points

Is anyone else offended by this song?

Is anyone else offended by this song? I heard [this](http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UxtfsX722Yk) terrible cookie cutter song on Spotify the other day and I thought it was highly offensive. I emailed th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJul 17, 2014
1 points

Has anybody ever been told by a girl that their stutter is "cute" or "adorable"? If so, or if not, how do you feel about that?

Has anybody ever been told by a girl that their stutter is "cute" or "adorable"? If so, or if not, how do you feel about that? I've made several skype friends over the past few months, and I've asked ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2014
1 points

Thanks for the encouraging words. I agree with everything you've said, but we all know it's hard to put things in to practise and be positive about our stutters at times. I'm just in one of those funk...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hope & MotivationShame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more