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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
5 points

One of my favorite stories is when I tried to order a country fried steak but I got suck in a loop of "cunt" (took about 4 tries). Either the waitress didn't notice at all, or she was a pro and stroll...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
11 points

8th grade. Decided to try out for the school musical. Worst fear came true: got a speaking part!! Rehearsals went well, I was feeling ready. Opening night: I'm standing center stage with my cast mate...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
1 points

my worst cases were all after i graduated college. It didn't bother the listeners that much. I guess they felt it was unfortunate i was having such a hard time. I felt like total shit though. There ar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
2 points

I just cannot do any types of personal questions where there are no word substitutes. "First and Last name please?" "Where do you work?" "Where are you from?" Etc... I immediately lock up and can...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
1 points

I just can't seem to be ok with stuttering. There are a few moments when I am ok with stuttering in a moment and I can calm down and just stutter easily but most of the time im uncontrollably trying s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2014
1 points

I wish I could do this trick, instead I stutter because I feel bad about lying :-P...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2014
2 points

This was a good read. I'm almost 32 and I still stutter, sometimes pretty badly. I've 'accepted it' as far as I know it's a part of me that won't ever go away. But I don't think I'm quite as far al...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2014
1 points

It's so awkward though! I get so flustered when someone says something for the first time even though they just don't know. I do enjoy watching them feel bad immediately afterwards though. haha....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2014
1 points

I agree. I never know what to say. I'm like, uhh, thanks? If it wasn't something I was pretty self-conscious about, I would just say thanks and move on. But I always try and detract attention from my ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2014
1 points

I used to avoid a stutterer in my class. I feel bad for him now. :-(...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2014
2 points

Thanks man. I have had people say stuff like 'don't worry dude, you're a man of few words, but I know those words are genuine and wise'. I'm thankful for people like that, yes I am. I understand that ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2014
1 points

I went to a clinic when I was in 6th grade and it was a bad experience for me personally. I was in there with kids who were handicapped and seemingly incoherent. We would all sit around in a table and...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Unhelpful Therapy TechniquesShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
postr/StutterSep 4, 2014
17 points

Having a stutter sucks

Having a stutter sucks This is going to be a little long and is pretty much just a rant. I have had a stutter for as long as I can remember but I didn't really feel insecure about it until high scho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2014
1 points

Both irritate the hell out of me, id rather people just ignore it. some people laugh at me like they believe i find them attractive and I'm getting nervous. When that happens i just stare at them till...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2014
1 points

That's strange. I'm confident that stuttering is intertwined with social anxiety, which in itself is strongly linked to self-esteem. Can't give references now but will try to research later....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2014
1 points

Come on guys, top search result on google scholar with keywords stutter and self esteem. http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0094730X0300010X Actually looks like stuttering does NOT aff...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2014
1 points

I'm covert, but I'm honestly way too hard on myself, focusing on every little "mistake" I make in conversation. I just elongate my sounds and pause and block a lot which I guess most people chalk up t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2014
10 points

Don't miss the forrest for the trees. You faced your fear and it came true. But what else happened? a) you successfully completed the task - congrats. That takes courage and conviction. Don't sell...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PridePersonal Stories+1 more
postr/StutterAug 22, 2014
15 points

This is the day I face my opponent.

This is the day I face my opponent. Today is the day I face my stutter, head on, for a final battle against what has held me back for such a length of time. I am 18 and just nearing a half hour ago,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2014
1 points

omg I know exactly what this feels like, it is one of the worst situations where I end up hating myself and my stutter....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment