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postr/StutterJan 21, 2015
16 points

My lowest point

My lowest point Today at 8:00 was my first class of the new semester. I was running late, but only by about ten minutes. I could have easily showed up late, and apologized then sat down. But I didn't....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJan 20, 2015
4 points

is all of this because of my stutter?

is all of this because of my stutter? I'm 17 years old, male, i have good friends, i go to parties with some of them, i have good marks in school, i'm pretty handsome, not like dayum but i like the wa...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterJan 20, 2015
4 points

Thought I was making so much progress. Feel like I'm back at square one :(

Thought I was making so much progress. Feel like I'm back at square one :( I am 20 years old and have had a stutter as far as I can remember. A few months back I started seriously working in becoming ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2015
1 points

it was hard to watch the movie the kings speech because it reminded me too much of myseldf and that was 4 years ago......

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentExperiential Association
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2015
3 points

I'm a first year med student with a stutter and I worry a lot about ending up in a situation where I get passed over for a residency spot because of it. You perfectly described how I feel when my stut...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeEmployment & CareerShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2015
1 points

Thank you! I'm sure I'm being overly sensitive about it, since I'm always on guard about my stuttering. But his comment about speech recognition still sticks with me...I hope other employers don't thi...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJan 8, 2015
16 points

Insulted for stuttering during an interview

Insulted for stuttering during an interview I'm a medical student applying for radiology residency. Yesterday, an interviewer interrupted me while speaking and asked if I "normally stuttered." I get o...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingEmployment & CareerShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2015
1 points

I laughed watching the Waterboy and I feel like a terrible person for doing so. Realizing this actually helped me understand why people who don't stutter would find mine funny, and I don't exactly ge...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & EmpathyHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2015
1 points

i dont get necessarily annoyed when listening to others stutter, it is just extremely uncomfortable for me. It shouldnt be, because most of the time I consider mine to be some of the worst I have ever...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2015
3 points

I sometimes wish I can just end myself to end this nonsense. At least I won't be going through embarrassment and emotional torture on a daily basis. edit: Just viewed one of my courses' learning pla...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressShame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2015
4 points

I have a few things to say about this. First, you're not a bad person for feeling this way. It is likely that hearing someone stutter reminds you of your own stuttering and brings up some kind of emo...

Community & SupportAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2015
4 points

I've actually had rock bottom stages like this. Points where I've embarrassed myself where I couldn't even say my name. I feared going to every single class except Maths because I know there was no co...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic LifeFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2015
7 points

Dude, you don't have to be ashamed of yourself for crying. This shit gets emotional, not being able to express yourself through words is one thing most people have no idea about. No idea how it feels ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2015
6 points

Hey man, I'm heading to work right now so i can't type as much as I'd like to but I just want to say you're a pretty strong individual for even still being alive after all that has happened to you o...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2015
10 points

i know ive had days where it was simply easier to pretend i had a very sore throat and write everything down. yes, yes, i know we are 'supposed' to power through it and be comfortable with ourselves ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy+1 more
postr/StutterDec 31, 2014
16 points

Im fucking done

Im fucking done Hey there... I've lurked in this sub for a little while because I too have stuttered ever since I was a little kid. I'm posting here because today I finally hit rock bottom in terms ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & CareerQuality of Life+2 more
postr/StutterDec 30, 2014
5 points

addressing the elephant in the room has made things almost worse...?

addressing the elephant in the room has made things almost worse...? My bf and I were in a LDR for roughly 11 months, which made hiding it easier. I am usually quiet anyway though. Though he never men...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2014
1 points

I'm going to have to disagree with most people here. I've had several girlfriends in the past tell me that it's cute, but I just feel sort of patronized. Like they're just saying it because it's a nic...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2014
4 points

I used to feel that way about my husband's stutter, but after ten years, and a much better understanding of how it makes him feel, it's not cute anymore. It's hard to remember how adorable it is when ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2014
3 points

I've had speech blocks at moments where I felt like shit after. Even though it has happened so many times I'm still not used to it....

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & Embarrassment