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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2016
3 points

Because I stutter and personally don't like it and would like to fix it despite my loved ones ensuring me they "never notice it"...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2016
2 points

I've gotten a few different reactions. When I talk to people with a moderate stutter almost all of them do not have any reaction. When my stuttering is severe, I get confused looks quite often and i...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2016
2 points

Well i can tell you one thing, your not alone. Far from it. What you described is almost exactly my life. I remember this traumatizing incident when i was a kid going into a new class in the middle o...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2016
6 points

People respond as if they don't know I stutter because mine is mild. Often they think I'm done talking, I forgot what i was saying or they get inpatient and start talking over me. It's the worst when ...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterDec 31, 2015
9 points

How do you deal with parents who have an apathetic attitude towards stuttering, and not having anyone to "talk" to?

How do you deal with parents who have an apathetic attitude towards stuttering, and not having anyone to "talk" to? In my father's case, I'm a "problem" - a disappointment that needs no attention unt...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2015
1 points

As much as i want to believe most people have some realization or moment when they realize there is another way to think, I think what you described is the general path. Can I ask how severe your st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2015
1 points

I would also like to know this. ***Socializing:*** I see things as *it is what it is* and there's nothing I can do about it. I'm 5'10" but would like to be 6'3". Should I try to grow to 6'3" at the ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2015
2 points

I've never met another stutterer before in my life, but I have seen several videos of other people stuttering. I cringe every single time. I find stuttering to be embarrassing so when I see other peo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2015
1 points

Haha, same for me most of the time. It feels comfortable when I'm talking to another pws. No shame, not feeling the need to hide it. But on the other hand... when I look at a clip of a women who ha...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2015
3 points

Heard a girl at the library a few weeks ago stuttering like hell and it was really uncomfortable. I think (for me at least) it's an empathy thing. It also made me ask myself if I sound like that to ot...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2015
2 points

Yeah seeing the physical struggle is the worst when its a bad blockage. I haven't had too many encounters with other stutterers and when I do its always awkward cause its like "man other people have t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2015
1 points

That's what i wish it was like when i heard others stutter....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2015
2 points

I totally cringe every time I hear another stutterer. A couple of months ago, I met with a couple of other stutterers at a university and we talked with students interested in becoming an SLP. I was...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2015
2 points

I don't run into a lot of other stutterers. Which like you said it's like putting a mirror in front of yourself and then seeing someone go through that same shame/humiliation is hard to see because I ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2015
2 points

I dunno, the first other stutterer I met was someone at the same age as me. We were at a house party drinking so that probably helped me not mind it so much. Tbh we talked about stuttering differences...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2015
5 points

How much contact with other people who stutter do you have in real life? I used to be like that but for the past ten years I met and talked to more than a hundred different people who stutter and beca...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2015
9 points

I thought I was the only one. For the most part, it bothers me because I start feeling the struggle of how hard it can be to get some words out. When I see the physical strain that they are having, I...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2015
2 points

It is very uncomfortable to be around other people with a stutter for me, unfortunately. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2015
2 points

I think it's weird/painful to hear other people stutter because you personally know the struggle and/or other emotion they're going through at that time; be it embarrassment, humiliation, etc....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2015
2 points

Yah, like my first reaction is to say, "spit it out". But that would just be wrong and I feel bad...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment