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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
2 points

Hey, I don’t think you’re a jerk for posting this. As you probably know, a lot of people in this sub are currently in their season of despising their stutter and having a tough time. Try to think back...

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postr/StutterOct 7, 2025
37 points

Every stutterer has different life

Every stutterer has different life People over here, don't understand not every stutterer is living same life. People are different, their struggle are different. We cannot put every stutterer in th...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
9 points

this is just vent shaming. you don't know if someone who vented yesterday will continue to vent the entire life doing nothing at all. for some people, venting is how they process a traumatic stuff bef...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
2 points

no way, we’re in the exact same situation! best of luck w ur stutter...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

To reply to your link (which I saw before, I love the Oatmeal’s work). Maybe I’ve used the wrong words. I guess I meant content? Not utterly miserable, you know, not wanting to not exist? Happiness is...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
2 points

Life isn't that bad there are people with other disability living a happy life , you can atleast move and go around, explore new place and shit . Life gets better...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

I could be wrong surely, but I can’t help but feel like there’s this undertone that if a stutterer managed to use positive thinking to get past their pain and struggles, surely their stutter or bullyi...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
14 points

As someone who has also improved myself immensely like you, I have to say your post is extremely insensitive. Your post ignores the fact that some people are either severe or lifelong stutters who li...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
2 points

Wow, that is horrible. Porky was one I loved as a kid too, in spite of my stutter. He didn't make me feel self conscious for some reason (similar things normally would). With that said, I don't think ...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

I am puzzled by the downvotes on your post and comments. We all share different degrees of this struggle, and those of us who were emotionally wrecked or paralyzed by shame and grief earlier in our li...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
2 points

I'm just gonna live up to my username. You know what, the OP if fucking right. We should do something and not just mope the fuck around. I mean of course it is on *us* to forgive. Apparently it's a *c...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

I never got put in speech therapy. But I stuttered from before school age. You are never going stop kids being kids. He's going to be made fun of at some point. Every kid is. The stutter is just an ea...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
2 points

I could have written your post myself. I'm an outlier on this sub from what I've heard. Not many women are stutterers (I didn't know). Attitude helps a lot. Being simple able to say, no matter how slo...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
18 points

I can see how some people may need a pep talk like this, but that’s not to say having a stutter can be a serious struggle many people go through that can’t just be easily dismissed....

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
10 points

"People are not avoiding you because you stutter. They are avoiding you because you are miserable to be around." Thank you. I really need to take that to heart.  I've always felt like I've never h...

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2025
16 points

I am sorry you feel unsupported on the subreddit - for what it's worth, you do raise very excellent points. We have many PWSs [in our Discord](https://discord.gg/ruf5BAt) who have extremely severe stu...

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2025
1 points

Yep mild stuttering people here with their toxic positivity are hurting this community so much. They have such a mild stutter and then they lecture people with severe stutter how should they act and i...

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2025
2 points

There is no formula to stuttering or dating, thats incel thinking and it'll do a lot more harm to your ability to be happy, make friends, or date than any disability. The truth is I and a ton of peop...

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2025
3 points

Exactly, the kind of motivational porn this sub , having is unrealistic and far from reality. No matter what other things you have, You cannot simply substitute/compensate basic communication/speech a...

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2025
2 points

I’ve been stuttering since 2nd grade and kids are mean but it made me strong so I’m sure he will turn out fine with the right therapist, the right support from his parents and some good affirmations. ...

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