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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2024
3 points

Agreed. Thankfully I was grew tall and quite strong early in life. My dad made me do martials arts as well to help, it also helped having an identical twin, although he does not stutter. I have had to...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2024
8 points

So listen. Sometimes you need to stand up for yourself, especially during physical altercations. If people are mocking you, leave it alone. They’re trying to get a reaction out of you. Be the bigger m...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2024
2 points

You are going to find that in life you will be called worse names by much better people. It happens. It sucks. But it happens. It is not just stuttering that creates this phenomenon. Take however lo...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & BullyingMindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2024
1 points

If the lunch box was metal, it truly was a long time ago. You may be viewing yesterday's actions through the lens of today. In today's world, there are mitigating forces that can be utilized in defens...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2024
5 points

Honestly I don’t speak a lot but if I have to stick up for myself I will try to talk with confidence, just normal stutter but I try to talk seriously without showing weakness...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterDec 19, 2024
13 points

How do you guys stick up for yourself?

How do you guys stick up for yourself? Wassup everyone. Just want to know how do you guys stick up for yourself. I'm 16 and have reached that point where I hate staying quiet when people pick on me. ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
5 points

I raised 3 kids and I'd never let my kids think dad didn't have the courage to speak for his family or do what needed done no matter how much it sucked for dad my kids wouldn't know it....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
2 points

I always say, ‘I stammer and I experience word blocks so it takes me a while to say my name’ whenever I’m asked. They usually go ‘that’s fine’, then I proceed to spell it out and they pronounce it and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2024
2 points

It is debilitating when that happens. As hard as it is, and the desire to power through a word...you have to stop. Just flat out stop. Don't talk. Don't say a word. Instead, take a deep breath. Then...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
4 points

I’m sorry you had a shitty experience. High school is rough enough, even without stuttering. Peer pressure, high expectations and the fact that brains are not fully developed yet all point to high sch...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
1 points

Of course I am aware that the option to text him about that is available however, there will be still the time you’ll see each other in person after that and I would like to avoid the uncomfortable fe...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
1 points

While there’s no law against it, this is a crutch that is likely to worsen your stutter blocks as time goes on. Better habits would be to make eye contact and begin saying your name on an *exhale*....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
1 points

If the professor is not on board, go higher up the chain to a department head. Ask for it to be done one on one with the professor and not in a room full of students. You can possibly do it under the ...

Coping & AdvocacyParent & CaregiverSchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool/Clinical AdvocacySchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
2 points

You will find that breaks in a person's employment don't mean as much as they used to. Having one or two jobs that make a 40 year career is a thing of the past. I am sure you know people who who roam ...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
1 points

The biggest thing I have learned over the years (all 50 of them) is to just stop. No matter how hard I would persevere and repeat myself or breathe my way through a block, the only way I learned to ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
1 points

For the future, you should also contact you contact your campus disability office for an assessment. I don't know where you are from but most places these days have quite robust accommodation options....

Coping & AdvocacyParent & CaregiverSchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool/Clinical AdvocacySchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2024
1 points

There is a reason the word Cure is not allowed. Separating the word to get past the filters is unacceptable. Find another way....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2024
4 points

Meh. I stutter pretty bad and I just flat out tell people. Especially when I’m having bad blocks. All my friends know. And people that I see/date often I tell them. Trying to hide it makes me seem ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2024
3 points

Hmm, this answer needs more context about me. I've been emotionally abused and lived in dissociation/survival mode most of my life (I'm now in my 20's). I went to speech therapy but I think I wasn't r...

Causes & VariabilityTherapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalTherapy ExperiencesAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2024
1 points

I've almost overcome my stutter now, at least I'm at a point where I don't really struggle that much and others don't notice it at all anymore (people look at me like a deer in the headlights when I t...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation+2 more