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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2025
6 points

I do agree that we all do it to a certain extent but sometimes I do it too much that I become anxious living in those conversations...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
11 points

I do it every single day. It’s never occurred to me that it’s possible that it’s from trying to overcome my stutter. I guess I assumed everyone did that!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterJul 25, 2025
19 points

Do you think conversations in your head?

Do you think conversations in your head? I'm wondering do you guys imagine/plan/analyse/think conversations in your head? I'm realising that I do this all the time, sometimes the conversations are abo...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
2 points

I’m a lawyer and I’ve had to learn to speak publicly. My best tip came from my daughter, who is a stutterer, too. When you’re about to block, just slide your hand across a podium or down the side of y...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
2 points

I also experience these, what’s helps is that if I feel a speech block come on, I just think of the word in my brain and think how easy the word is to say. The word is just a bunch of syllables, so I ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
4 points

Exactly! So maybe, next time you’re engaged with someone, think “what i’m experiencing is a trained reaction from social stimulation and the speech blocks are a symptom” and see if that can help provi...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Trauma & PsychologicalOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2025
3 points

I was watching a movie "About Time" and I was wondering if getting to live the same moment twice by reversing time could help us talk more fluently? Knowing at which words we get a block. Haha. I comp...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyOverthinking & MonitoringSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
4 points

you know what's annoying, when people tell you "think about what you are gonna say" n!!!!, I know what I am gonna say!!! fluent people don't have to do That. The more I think about what to say the w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
2 points

Same issue here, but I have a trick that always works. When someone asks me to repeat myself and I know the words won’t come out, I start with: ‘What I was saying is…’ and somehow everything flows. Wi...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
1 points

>*Although I didn’t ever consider it a stutter.* Well, it doesn't really matter what you considered it. If he stuttered then and he stutters now, then it's a pretty safe bet to assume he just stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringListener ReactionsStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
1 points

I have been focusing in self acceptance and building up my social skills/confidence for the past couple of years and really I am much happier than when I was focused on improving my fluency. The way I...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2025
4 points

Thank you for saying so. :) I usually push through as well, even when it's rough. Plus, it's usually only family that try to 'help'... that might be coloring my feelings about it some way or another...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Overthinking & MonitoringValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2025
7 points

I am also struggling with a stutter that started abruptly as a teen/adult. It drives me nutty when someone finishes my sentence—even when they are correct. I find it rude but I guess it’s a personal p...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Listener ReactionsOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterJul 22, 2025
1 points

Need mentor for US Accent

Need mentor for US Accent Hey people Iam 21M pursuing my CS majors. I need someone for teaching me US Accent (as well as English ) Iam non native English speaker I can't face online interviews so I ...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
School & Academic LifeOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2025
1 points

Yes, I’ve experienced that too. But if you tend to stutter on 3 words in an 8-word sentence, you’ll end up pausing and inhaling quite often — doesn’t that make the speech sound a bit unnatural? Has th...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesOverthinking & MonitoringExperiential Association
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2025
6 points

I feel like you’re describing every stutter’s experience perfectly, lol. I think when I stutter I go kind of blank inside, like I’m blocking out the world because I don’t want to see the persons faci...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2025
2 points

Do you know what happens? I feel that my brain has gotten used to not stuttering with people who are not close to me and now it is VERY difficult for me to approach other people because basically my s...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2025
1 points

Yeah, I get that. You can't be angry all the time, unless you're happy having no friends and being *that* guy. Yeah, I get that. It's defo complicated as I can also stutter when I don't think I'm an...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Propositionality & WeightAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterJul 21, 2025
6 points

What goes on in your head when you stutter?

What goes on in your head when you stutter? I'm always curious what goes on in people's heads when they talk. Especially if they can talk flawlessly without a stutter or any doubt in their mind that t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterJul 20, 2025
8 points

What I observed as a Stutter in my early 20s, do you guys find it relatable?

What I observed as a Stutter in my early 20s, do you guys find it relatable? # About Myself >I have stutter i am 20M pursuing Computer Science, i started to notice my stutter at the age of 9or10, got...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringHelplessness & AgencyNeurological & Brain+2 more