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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2019
1 points

Ik man. I gotta present for my final year project defense this friday and I'm scared as fuck. Even emailed my teacher to give me 0 but I don't wanna give it but she wants me to come no matter what. Pr...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2019
2 points

its one the most awkward moments i have to face. I don't even know how to react to it and so i pretend to be deeply focused in the movie idk why...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2019
1 points

I think you described it excellently when you said “20+ years of speech experience and muscle memory.” We have such a strong reflex to talk in the way that’s natural, and I think social expectations a...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2019
1 points

I know it's hard, at least in the beggining, but i am confident that it will be better in the long run. I think it should be hard as you are overwriting 20+ years of speech experience and muscle memor...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2019
6 points

Man the only thing more uncomfortable than stuttering is watching someone else stutter......

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2019
2 points

I try to say that but I stutter even worse then and they still chuckle to themselves :/ it’s frustrating....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2019
5 points

Yeah this happens to me, it's annoying as hell. These ignorant people who do this just automatically assume I'm stupid or something, until after I tell them I have a speech issue. Then they either apo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2019
2 points

Is it a simple name? My name is Matt, I feel like if I spelt it when people asked I’d look stupid 😂 look stupid stuttering tho 🤷🏼‍♂️...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2019
1 points

I hate this,one time my mom and dad took me to McDonald’s,they are divorced, and my mom said I should order it my self, and my dad was trying to do it for me and it was just embarrassing and I wanted ...

Emotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerTreatment Decisions
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2019
5 points

I often feel like that too. We aren't a fluent talker and don't accept ourselves being bad. We're just stuck in the middle always making a joke out of ourselves...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2019
1 points

I completely agree, once I booked a movie ticket and I didnt go when I found out one of the main characters is stuttering. 😅...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2019
2 points

Yea i know this feeling, it's like you want other people to see how you really are but you are afraid of stutt and you just try to avoid talking, so you look like a quiet boring person...that sucks...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2019
1 points

Hi! I am 20f with a stutter and I know exactly what are feeling because it's the exact same way I am. I absolutely hate it. People think I am cold and standoffish but I am really just terrified of loo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2019
1 points

I normally use "um" but then I feel this little "thing" when other people realizes that you stutter, and then I stutter more. I think I need to work on that first tho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2019
13 points

I can relate. The fact that my family have always refused to talk about it while I grew up didn't help either... And everybody else discovered but no one talked about it with me, it felt like the elep...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2019
1 points

I would normally say I have a moderate stutter, but it gets pretty severe in certain situations. It's just like a moderate stutter, but more. More frustrating, more embarrassing, more time wasted, e...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2019
2 points

One time my Spanish teacher in 7th grade asked me a question about something, I don’t remember what it was exactly. I do remember when I stuttered for a solid 5 seconds and she tried to be funny by qu...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2019
2 points

I had kind of a similar experience, teacher wise. My teacher knew i stammered but still pointed to me alot for answers. We had to give a presentation in the final week. I already told him 2 weeks pr...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2019
1 points

I am 48 and had a meeting where we had to tell the group one quirky thing about ourselves. Ugh, it was painful and obnoxious. My quirky thing is that I have worn glasses since I was 5 years old....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2019
2 points

Maybe i did a few time's in class. But to be honest it was pretty cringe af. People would just look at me with their dumb faces while trying a bit to explain why I stutter. Also this meme is very rela...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution