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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2021
9 points

We all have those mental images we will never forget where someone has reacted negatively to a bad block/stutter. I used to be terrified of the reactions and whether or not I would be shunned. I have...

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2021
2 points

thank you! your comments really means a lot, i i definitely agree! and ahh i can only imagine the anxiety, people tend to always say so dismissively ‘dont worry about what others think’ but in reality...

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2021
1 points

Oh god!! I am so sorry that we are having this experiences without people realizing how harmful their words are...

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commentr/StutterMar 17, 2021
7 points

Believe me I know EXACTLY how you feel. My speech has improved but when I was younger I got these reactions all day everyday. I know it’s hell frustrating. Keep ur chin up. Our time will come 💪...

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commentr/StutterMar 17, 2021
3 points

Yeah I think most of us do. What helps me is realizing you have something you cannot control and really most people don’t care. I’ve gone to the same school for 13 years and at this point no one cares...

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commentr/StutterMar 17, 2021
7 points

doesnt mean they know what their talking about when it comes stopping stammering...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2021
6 points

This right here. I always hear “just sing all the time and you won’t stutter!” Yeah bitch, you sing all the fucking time and tell me how that goes....

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2021
5 points

Oh yeah I should breathe omg thanks for reminding me!! will you look at that my stutter has been cured wow awesome!...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2021
3 points

Glad us stutterers are sticking together though, this community is awesome. So glad I found it....

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2021
19 points

yerp and the "just slow down", "just breathe" and then when u tell em they have no idea you get hit with the passively aggressively "trust me I stuttered as a child". how many people I've met who clai...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2021
1 points

And aren't they just a bunch of petty idiots for laughing. Can you imagine being so eager to belittle someone? I can't, and I feel sorry for anyone that does - you should too....

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2021
20 points

It can be very annoying. Try to keep in mind that they have the best intentions. They are just completely ignorant on the topic of stuttering....

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commentr/StutterMar 15, 2021
2 points

Came here to say the same! The NSA is great, I used to go to meetings in Manhattan back when we could have them in person, it’s a really great community with a pretty diverse group of kind people. OP,...

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commentr/StutterMar 15, 2021
10 points

There is a VERY ACTIVE National Stuttering Association presence in NYC that meets regularly! Great people there! https://westutter.org/find-nsa-meeting-near/new-york/...

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commentr/StutterMar 15, 2021
3 points

Tell us when it's over :) And just think about that it's not for always. Waiting for pain is always worse than pain itself, heh....

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commentr/StutterMar 15, 2021
7 points

Relax bro. Take deep breaths from the diaphragm, and remember the person you’re talking to is a human being- meaning, you could trip over every word, and I’m sure they’d feel sorry for you. You got th...

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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2021
5 points

If your stutter doesn't bother you, you have won!!!! Don't let anyone change that! Your sister sounds incredibly insecure, don't let her infect you. Please don't let anyone affect you this much,...

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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2021
3 points

Sorry your family have that response to your stutter. C ask I recommend a wonderful community on fb group-voices unearthed. Compassionate folk that aren't into *fixing* Into to accepting :) Edit: ...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2021
1 points

No - talking about this here with those who share my frustrations and provide the space to rant/vent/share has been immensely helpful. Yours and others sharing and support has really helped with deal...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2021
1 points

That’s so good to hear, I feel a lot better after reading this. Started off as you venting but you ended up helping someone else.. thank you so much....

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