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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2025
5 points

i don't see them as subhumans and whatsoever, i know few people who stutter and dated one for 2 years, the difference is that their lives are x10 times stressful especially if the stuttering is sever,...

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Dating & RomanceStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2025
3 points

Yeah honestly it happened all my life. I suppose is about getting used to it. But never had a GF I cant talk about it...

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postr/StutterSep 21, 2025
2 points

Some words of encouragement

Some words of encouragement Hey everyone, I'm new to this subreddit and wanted to share my experience as someone who has greatly improved his stutter, but especially learned to feel much more comforta...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2025
4 points

I was lucky enough for a coworker to set me up with her cousin, so I didnt actually have to approach. It didnt work out but atleast I got some dating experience lol...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2025
4 points

They're cute ;) Had a crush on this girl who was a stutterer in school. I left the place. Lost the communication. I admired her a lot back then....

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2025
16 points

I dont think they think to much about it. In my adult years in mostly met with acceptance. It has even helped my career a tiny bit! And some girls find it charming so it is kind of an advantage in the...

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
3 points

I had a girl who liked me but when it comes to intimacy stuttering was a turn off for her...

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
6 points

Your stutter is actually a great filtering mechanism. The right girls won’t care about it, and the wrong ones will cancel themselves out before you have a chance to waste time with them. Bottom line: ...

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
1 points

Well not to brag but I barely ever trued doing that again. I just have the fear that I’m just gonna get rejected so just stay away from it...

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
27 points

Bro please doing it. My now husband has a stutter and I just don’t gaf he’s kind and attractive and that’s all that like really matters...

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
7 points

No. If she likes YOU (which you’ll never learn if you don’t approach her), then that won’t matter. You’d rather find out now, than find out later that she secretly despises it and throws it in your fa...

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
9 points

One time a girl i talked to asked my friend if i was retarded (in front of me), after that i never approached another. (I have gf now, she initiated the whole relationship tho, otherwise id still be...

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
11 points

Its even worse when a random woman approaches me and asks me something and I am trying to answer her but I cant say anything because I know every good answer will make me stutter so I just say I need ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
50 points

yeah honestly im decently attractive, and go to the gym, but I never talk to girls because of my stutter...

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2025
26 points

When being a teen and trying to pick up the phone to call a girl at her home... Death sentence 💀...

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postr/StutterSep 20, 2025
345 points

Can you guys relate ?

Can you guys relate ? Dating itself isn't the issue. But the first step, the approach, the initial contact... A lot of missed opportunities because of the stutter. It's one of the rare situations wh...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2025
8 points

I once approached a girl straight up looking those approaching girls videos and I stuttered soo badly infront of that chick and she made that confused face (yk what face I’m talking about when you stu...

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Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2025
5 points

Maybe because if you stutter you'd rather not talk to the opposite gender....

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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2025
1 points

I was on online dating for 3.5 years and I went on hundreds of dates. The trick to online dating is making a great profile. Don’t just post a few selfies, get someone to take photos of you having fu...

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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2025
1 points

I met my gf online, I had the most success on Bumble, but it varies by area so basically use them all.  It took 4 years, on and off, but we've been together nearly a year now. So you definitely have...

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