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commentr/StutterJun 18, 2021
1 points

I agree! I know it has no intent on being negative or mocking me but it’s like I have to deal with this everyday and people think it’s the same....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2021
1 points

ohhh i couldnt agree more! what boils my blood though is when i say that i have a stutter because i 1) want to be upfront with it to deal with it better and 2) avoid awkward situations ASAP and they i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2021
5 points

That sounds horrible man, and it’s even worse that you can’t even prove that it was down to your stammer. That’s also why I get so annoyed when people tell me to embrace it. Even if we “embrace” it, i...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2021
10 points

I had to do "it" all over again like 3 times in the last 5 years. Hiring managers are the fuckin rake when it comes to stuttering. I've had to suck it up in the worst moments and walk out when it al...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2021
2 points

I had a very severe stutter, now my stuttering is much more situational. In terms of technique, when I was very severe I think it does help to work on breathing from the diaphragm and speaking at th...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Physical TensionShame & EmbarrassmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
postr/StutterJun 15, 2021
2 points

For does who believe their stuttering is severe…how do U cope?

For does who believe their stuttering is severe…how do U cope? I’m worried about my future and living life because I’m ashamed of stutter and recently it has gotten worst I believe I’m worried about e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterJun 14, 2021
9 points

Seeking help (my story)

Seeking help (my story) It’s going to be a long read, and English is not my native language so excuse me if I make some mistakes. (25 years old male) I’ve stuttered for a while when I was a kid, bu...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2021
1 points

Yes, stuttering makes life pretty terrible. People think I'm literally retarded. I wouldn't ever commit suicide but let's just say I'm glad life isn't that long...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2021
1 points

Yea but when i was a kid and people would do that it made me feel like i *couldnt* do it or was less intelegent for some reason Now i rlly dont mind that part as much, its mostly the mocking that ann...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJun 9, 2021
1 points

Apart from reading out loud, name the one thing in class or just in general as a kid you hated the most thanks to your stutter

Apart from reading out loud, name the one thing in class or just in general as a kid you hated the most thanks to your stutter [deleted]...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
3 points

Amazing advice but I find it hard accepting my stutter. Maybe because it’s the fact that iv just turned 18 iv got to deal with finding a job, relationships and adult stuff....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
4 points

I would like to think like you, but I can't, i always feel like i lost a battle if i stuttered just once, can't deal with it, i just afraid that people would think that I'm stupid or something like th...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
1 points

I absolutely remember the anguish and trauma I suffered as a child and teen stutterer. It does real and lasting damage. Some memories hurt to this day. I fully expected the pushback. I just had to ra...

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Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterJun 7, 2021
3 points

It's all downhill

It's all downhill I hate people always downplaying my stuttering. Treating it like some common illness that will pass with time. It only gets worse really. A stutter affects your whole life, especiall...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2021
2 points

As a medical student I've always been very worried with how my stutter will influence my ability to be a physician. Im so sorry this happened to you OP. I've also experienced ableism at school and it ...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2021
1 points

Sorry this happened. This is the most frustrating feeling when you try to pick up some confidence and the teacher of all people says some shit like that? You shouldn’t have to explain yourself as you’...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2021
4 points

If you don't explain your situation to the teacher, that person won't know that you have this problem and maybe you should not read publicly and get humiliating experiences/trauma. It was still a rude...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & EmbarrassmentTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2021
26 points

I’ve felt that frustration before. When I was a sophomore in high school, I had a teacher who LOVED to do popcorn reading. Every time it was my turn to read I would stutter so bad I could barely finis...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterJun 6, 2021
47 points

So fucking frustrated

So fucking frustrated This is just a rant. I had to read aloud in front of the class. I stuttered like crazy. Then after a few lines, I began picking up confidence but I was still shaking. From a 8/10...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2021
1 points

Pushing through it is the only way my man. It sucks in the moment and is embarrassing but that’s how I’ve been dealing with mine....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages