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commentr/StutterNov 29, 2017
1 points

I didn't like discussing it for the longest time but I've worked through it. Now I make it clear that I'm open to questions about it and that I'm ok with repeating myself when necessary. Personally ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterNov 29, 2017
2 points

Does educating others about stuttering come at a cost?

Does educating others about stuttering come at a cost? Recently I've found less motivation to talk to other people about my stuttering. As a background, I frequently self-disclose to others that I stu...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2017
1 points

ahh i get it. Actually you're right. I told my RA about my stutter and maybe she told them......

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterNov 26, 2017
10 points

"I have a neurological problem" - Explaining my stutter to other people

"I have a neurological problem" - Explaining my stutter to other people I've started to be a bit more open about my stutter. For example, when it happens in front of my coworkers, I make an effort to ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Neurological & BrainIdentity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2017
3 points

I did the advice people had been telling me my whole life. I just did it. I pushed myself beyond what i was comfortable with. I went to my interview covered in sweat and clamy palms. I started off wit...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterNov 24, 2017
35 points

How I kinda cured/accepted my stutter

How I kinda cured/accepted my stutter Hi guys, I've stumbled upon this subreddit not too long ago. I've been stuttering since I was 11. 23 now. It would always restrict me of doing things or talking...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterNov 21, 2017
10 points

Confession: Sometimes if I'm in a busy restaurant or store & the person behind the counter is being rude and impatient (or was mean to the person before me) I stutter more on purpose 😈

Confession: Sometimes if I'm in a busy restaurant or store & the person behind the counter is being rude and impatient (or was mean to the person before me) I stutter more on purpose 😈 I posted t...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2017
1 points

Mainly I would have wanted that teacher to know that I had a stutter beforehand. I can't hate on him for asking me my name because it's such a simple question that people ask each other all the time. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2017
3 points

I really appreciate you asking this question. As a PWS I find it really difficult to say my name and the way people react to it can really have an effect on me (good or bad). I think that the most h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
postr/StutterNov 11, 2017
9 points

What should I say

What should I say When I first meet you and I know you are a PWS? A lot of people block on their names and I know this so I want to dance around the name question. I had a situation recently and I ...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersListener Reactions
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2017
8 points

I quit being so tough on myself. I mean it's not like it's my fault- and people generally understand that. One of the biggest changes I made was just being open about it. In high school I didn't speak...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2017
1 points

I do and it does, but I am looking for more places to practice so I can get comfortable stuttering openly over the phone....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2017
2 points

If it helps, I was in a similar situation. I wanted to speak to a girl but was worried about my stutter. The first time I spoke to her I had problems getting my words out, but I somehow got through it...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2017
2 points

That might feel weird, but it's SO much better than sort of pretending it's not there. It will break the ice. And the way you write it here is funny. Unless she's super self-conscious or has no sen...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2017
3 points

Yes, thats exactly what you need to tell her, how you feel about the conversation and ask her these questions. It may be weird but it's better than feeling bad all the time when you talk with her. For...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2017
1 points

Do you have the “I stutter” card from the National Stuttering Foundation?...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2017
3 points

Its hard. Most people (or, most adults) who laugh at stuttering do so because they are uncomfortable. Its not a reflection of you, its a reflection of them - and their discomfort. They dont underst...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2017
3 points

I talk to a lot of people about my stutter. There's a lot to talk about (or a little, if you want to be brief). You should talk to your familiy about it. Start small if you're nervous....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2017
1 points

Could you talk to her about it? Maybe she doesn't understand what stutter is....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2017
3 points

This sure makes sense to me haha. Thank you for your response. One thing that I have only recently come to terms with is, like you mention, that my impediment will never completely go away and I need ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others