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commentr/StutterMay 31, 2025
7 points

I would have loved to have had a teacher that actually cared enough even to ask this question. Remember that stuttering is very fickle and this young person is still trying to navigate/understand wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2025
1 points

I always do “Hello my name is …” otherwise I’ll block....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterMay 31, 2025
60 points

My date went really well!

My date went really well! I postes 2 Days ago about a date I was going to have and wether or not to mention beforehand that I stutter. It did come up over text but not really in detail. So I mentionne...

Social & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & RomancePositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2025
12 points

I'd recommend telling her beforehand. Then you don't have to address it in person. There's a very slight chance she might feel blindsided if you wait till you are on the date. Just tell her it might...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterMay 29, 2025
17 points

Going on a Date tomorrow

Going on a Date tomorrow So tomorrow i'm going on a Date with a girl from bumble. I have a noticeable stutter but i'm planning on telling her at the beginning of the date. Maybe something along the li...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2025
1 points

If it’s an important enough situation like a job interview and you find yourself stammering it might be best to just tell them. Guarantee you’ll speak 100% better right afterwards and they’ll feel bet...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2025
1 points

So sorry for the late reply, i usually try to use a different word to start a conversation like im much more confident to say “namaste” that to use “hi” or can skip hi and start with a “sup?” Or can ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2025
2 points

gave a huge presentation just yesterday (which went surprisingly well) and here are some tips that might help you based on my own experience: 1) prepare as much as you can. you don't need to memorize...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Preparation & RehearsalFluency TechniquesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2025
5 points

This happened to me in my late 20s when I decided to live my life regardless of my stutter. I have to thank a 2-week class in Italy where the main message was: "How did you learn to use your stutter t...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2025
2 points

I would personally prefer that someone brought me up the topic, in a light manner, I would feel less burdened by not having to say it myself, and at the same time it would show that the other person ...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
2 points

Yea, sometimes it helps to acknowledge the elephant in the room before it barrels in and starts knocking over stuff leaving bystanders thinking “Wtf is happening…”. It even relaxes me a bit so I don’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
3 points

Consider disclosure: “Hi, welcome to (restaurant), my name is (name), and so you know, I do stutter, so I appreciate your patience…”...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
3 points

I wouldn’t do it in a medical context, because that could affect you in a lot of ways, but I’ve definitely done it in harmless ways. Different name when ordering coffee/food, tell a stranger who I’ll ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
3 points

People here have already given excellent advice but my additional two cents (33yo engineer here) 1) practice your presentations and morning updates 2) be transparent about your disability/limitation ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalDisclosure & Telling OthersHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
3 points

I get it, I've done it. In most scenarios lying for the sake of a smoother word is harmless, but for medical stuff it's so much better to just stutter through it and tell the truth....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
17 points

Yep, I do this too. White lies to avoid blocks. I've never used my real name with a barista....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
1 points

It’s kinda mysterious. I get using a different name. If applicable… I carry a card with my name, phone number, and email address just to make day to day interactions easier. I stutter a ton when I hav...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2025
28 points

I know this likely isn’t helpful but I don’t think we should choose our profession based on if we speak a lot. Meetings might be hard but if you preface meetings with strangers with saying “hey every...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2025
4 points

I always start by telling them I have a stutter. I say "I have a stutter, so please let me know if you need me to clarify anything." That why they're less likely to think I'm just nervous or somethin...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2025
2 points

I was scared of this too. I regret not trying. I met a trial attorney who lives in Portland. He became a trial attorney because when he was in college, his stutter kind of went away and he thought may...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others