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postr/StutterJan 25, 2026
8 points

This will always keep me from reaching true happiness

This will always keep me from reaching true happiness On paper my life looks decent. I'm in my early 20s and by god's grace, I have a full-time job as a Security Consultant. where I speak with a lot o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2026
1 points

It’s ok. At least you are making an honest living. This isn’t an easy hand to be dealt. We just have the make the most of our situation as People Who Stutter....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life
postr/StutterJan 25, 2026
4 points

My experience with teaching and stuttering for 3 years (A bit long + venting)

My experience with teaching and stuttering for 3 years (A bit long + venting) Hi, I’m 28 years old and have been stuttering since I was a child. I work as an English teacher in my country. Although I ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightSeverity & FluctuationFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2026
1 points

That happens to almost all of us who stutter. I once read that it's because when you talk to someone, the social part of your brain is activated, which doesn't happen when you talk to yourself. So i...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainSituational VariabilityIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2026
1 points

No one, not a single person cares about your stutter as much as you do inside your head. Don't let it put you down....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2026
2 points

I couldn't agree more. To me, the "real self" is defined by our sensibilities and perspectives—not by the quality of our vocal output. But sadly, the world often judges us on "how" we speak rather th...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2026
1 points

Text, Text=real me Stammering=I don't know that person. It's not me and never will....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2026
2 points

yeah i've had people think i'm SMARTER because i stutter, and i've learned that people listen harder and more actively to me than to anyone else. i think a lot of this is just the way you interpret ...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2026
1 points

The sincere comment really got me thinking. To me, having text ready isn't a "defeat." It’s more like an "amulet" or "tranquilizer" that keeps me calm. I’m wondering if this difference comes from ou...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2026
0 points

I think that the word "concerned" makes it sound like someone being a person who stutters is a bad thing. I have a husband and two kids who stutter- when my kids started stuttering, I was worried th...

Identity & DisabilityParent & Caregiver
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideParent Emotions & Guilt
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2026
1 points

I have a similar path, i got a math degree BS and a marketing master, yet i can't find any job, i'm 26M, my mother tell me to get a sell job but if she knew how weird is it as a stutter to guide a cli...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2026
1 points

I appreciate the response but I don’t think I have social anxiety. When I think about the med school interview I do, I was just so nervous because I didn’t get enough practice considering my stutter. ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2026
3 points

managing situational anxiety with medication is just a TEMPORARY bandaid. Long term usage comes with side-effects like fatigue, hunger pangs, and those are the minor ones. I use it occasionally in h...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2026
3 points

When I spoke with a new guy at work and quickly in the conversation he said “holy shit you have a stutter too?” Was nice to run into a fellow stutterer in the wild...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2026
7 points

I don't have kids, but my mother has told me multiple times how she went through exactly what you're going through. Living with a stutter is tough, but if it truly is a stutter, it's not like taking...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityParent & Caregiver
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2026
1 points

Just gotta roll the nat20 to hit all the conditions that would lead to the job for a non-stutterer AND do so in the presence of a hiring manager who thinks handicaps are endearing and/or looking to di...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2026
3 points

I really think we stutteres need to give less of a fuck. No need to fit in. Do what you do and take minutes or longer to say what you want to say. Be open about the fact that you stutter and that’s it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2026
4 points

yeah, u can be a useless stutterer o a stutterer who studied. choose...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2026
6 points

I don’t know if this counts, but one time I met someone new through a friend and started talking. When it was her turn to speak, she had a stutter as well that was about equal to mine. We didn’t menti...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2026
6 points

I have my dream job. Im an anti-money laundering analyst. I have to talk a lot during investigations, team meetings, trainings, client meetings, etc.  There was 2 things I realized: 1. Im always goi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more