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postr/StutterNov 17, 2025
15 points

Getting very tired of my partner using her stutter as an excuse for everything.

Getting very tired of my partner using her stutter as an excuse for everything. My partner and I (30M, 29F) live in the UK have been together for about 3 years now. She developed the stutter after a c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2025
2 points

Story of my life. I feel like I’m a pretty smart dude even smarter than most. But when you can’t convey your words properly people think down on you. There’s thousands of things I want to stay to peop...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2025
3 points

Lee’s book was easily the best thing I’ve ever read on stuttering. He offers practical tips to come at the issue from all directions. 1. Mechanical things to do in the moment of a block 2. Pre-speak...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2025
1 points

I would be a social butterfly if I didn’t stutter. Like others have said it’s a constant battle between speaking or staying quiet. But I also take the path of fuck you, this is who I am, so deal with ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2025
1 points

I used to stutter a lot when I was a kid. I was mocked and joked about in school every day; I think the other kids just found that funny or out of place; I was an easy target for the bullies. It took...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
1 points

Communications. I'm a good writer because I want people to understand me even if I can't say all the things I want to. My bosses know I stutter. I'm fairly fluent but when I stutter, it sounds like I'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
2 points

I pretty much talk all day to a certain degree, either on the phone with customers or with colleagues trying to resolve problems. It feels like it's come out of nowhere but it might be I've just sta...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
9 points

People don’t understand the true disability side of stuttering. I’m not gonna sit here and compare it with the likes of other physical disabilities. However, stuttering can be hidden and may be mistak...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
3 points

All the time buddy, I’ve dealt with this my whole life…. You should see their faces when I say I have an undergraduate degree in engineering with distinction…. Their minds are blown and then often the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
1 points

Whatever works, works. We don’t really get to choose how we adapt but we gotta get through everyday and that’s enough, the thought of the constant mental battle and every social interaction feels like...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
3 points

Actually, yes, I'm a very extroverted person who loves being around people all the time and large friend groups. However, my stutter led me to develop almost social anxiety, where it is very energy-co...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
2 points

I’ve had a similar journey. When my stutter got really bad at the end of high school I became more quiet. Now I can mask quite well and I’m somewhat talkative...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
1 points

that's not going to help you get over the stutter. its the worst thing for it, like texting....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
1 points

I have come in contact over the years of a lot of covert stutters. I think that they are not comfortable being a person who stutters, as well as encountering other stutters you would think they be rel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
4 points

I was painfully shy and introverted before the stutter developed....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
2 points

*Sorry for the grammar. I'm exhausted from work, and not in the mood to nit pick my writing or whether I'm doing you vs me writing.* I'm an adjunct professor of respiratory therapy and a practicing re...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2025
1 points

I don’t really remember ever talking about my stutter on purpose. Maybe once or twice at the start of a conversation, but that’s about it. I’ve heard that telling people can help with the stress, and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2025
3 points

Just realized you didn’t asked for advice btw 😂 sorry for the unsolicited words! Answering the question: I used to feel like this but 2 years ago I decided to confront my fears and now I’m much more...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2025
4 points

It used to for like almost my whole life (I’m 27 lol). I was doing a first semester at a community college and had to enroll last minute, ended up in a public speaking class. HA I was freaking tf ou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2025
9 points

I’m a lawyer. Law school was rough. One professor told me I should drop out because of my speech. That made me angry enough to keep going—partly just to prove this guy wrong. Things were difficult at ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+3 more