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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2017
2 points

Thanks. I do want to see her again, she’s a really interesting girl. I’ll take your advice though; talking to her and whatnot. I think I was just in my head about the sex too. All I kept thinking of w...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2017
3 points

I've been you. If you really don't want to have sex, don't. It's ok to not be ready for dirty tango, no big deal, bro. It's your body and your decision. You're young and you'll have other opportunitie...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2017
2 points

Congrats on finding a job and doing your masters. If you have time, you should date and figure out what you would want from a potential spouse. Time flies and the older you get, the harder it will be ...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2017
2 points

I wouldn't want to go on blind dates either so I don't blame you. If I did go on a blind date, I think i might just tell the other person I had a stutter as that helps relax me and I don't stutter as ...

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Dating & Romance
postr/StutterSep 10, 2017
11 points

I don't want to date because of my stutter

I don't want to date because of my stutter So my family has been pestering me to go on blind dates and find myself a partner (i'm a girl) but i even hate the idea of it. I don't want to be ridiculed b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2017
1 points

I casually mention my stutter on my Tinder profile and I've never had any problems getting matches/responses. No girl I've talked to on there has ever brought it up even once....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2017
2 points

The best thing to do is to tell the teachers beforehand. By doing so, I was able to do group presentations and solo presentations with their help. I would do the writing in my group and let the others...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2017
3 points

Of course I can. Life is all about judging others. We make our daily decisions based on how we perceive others to be. It's time to wake up. Take dating for example. The very first thing we do is jud...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceEmployment & Career
postr/StutterSep 1, 2017
14 points

Breaking Point

Breaking Point I don't want to sound like I'm complaining at all. But I really have no where else to turn. My stutter has gotten so incredibly bad that it has taken complete hold upon my life. Brief n...

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Suicidal Ideation & High DistressHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2017
1 points

I wouldn't hesitate to indicate that you stutter on your profile. I get that people can be at many different levels of severity with their stutter, but I don't think I would ever equate it to being as...

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commentr/StutterAug 24, 2017
3 points

Well, there is something in between putting that you stutter in your profile and just showing up at a date without ever telling the other person, yes? You'd normally have some back and forth with som...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2017
2 points

The con is that you might also weed out people who are on the fence about stuttering but are looking for their unicorn on a datingsite. I never tell them straight away, but I do before a first date so...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2017
4 points

If you want to be selective and ignore the people who are disinterested in the idea of dating a stuttering stranger, it's a great idea....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & Romance
postr/StutterAug 23, 2017
3 points

Telling People I Stutter on Dating Sites

Telling People I Stutter on Dating Sites I was wondering does anybody think this a good idea? I feel like when I did not explicitly state that I stutter on my profiles I received a lot more messages a...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2017
2 points

Who knows, maybe you'd feel more comfortable and open up some more if you had a girlfriend who stutters too. I never even wanted to try to start dating anybody because of how embarrassing it is, I was...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2017
5 points

I always wanted a girlfriend that stutters because I stutter. I thought I'd be cool because we can go through the struggle together but I don't think that'll work out... Someone has to do the talking....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterAug 6, 2017
29 points

So fucking depressed and held back in life cause of this shit.

So fucking depressed and held back in life cause of this shit. I don't even know what to say. I hate myself for this. Life looks bleak when I stutter. Each time I stutter I feel just a little bit of j...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2017
4 points

I didn't get to being social in college til junior year. Don't waste your time like I did. People don't give a fuck about your stutter. I could've gotten laid freshman year but never did because I was...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2017
2 points

Yup. Dont worry. It will come. But I do understand why you worry and I am more than happy that I have a wife and dont have to go through all the dating show. ...

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Dating & RomanceValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2017
2 points

At a private party. We sat next to eachother. Lots of alcohol involved. Its been 10 years now. So I didnt stutter that night because I was so drunk. But the morning after I did. She didnt care about...

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