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commentr/StutterNov 24, 2025
1 points

This is common for a few reasons: 1) People who stutter can become very skilled at switching out a similar word for a difficult word; but, you can’t change out your own name. 2) you don’t say your nam...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2025
5 points

Yeah, i struggle the most around my family members. I guess i subconsciously put pressure on myself to try and be fluent around them, causing my fluency to get worst....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2025
1 points

Exactly. My fiancé stutters a lot more in her native Spanish (she's from Mexico) which she speaks to her family but she's comfortable around with her speech. But she speaks her secondary language, Eng...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2025
1 points

Perhaps that’s what it is — I think it's a subconscious switch and since I don't live home anymore I'm more aware of the stutter coming back since I'm not tuned in to filtering it. Occasionally too wh...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2025
1 points

It's the opposite for my fiancé. She was born and raised in Mexico and her native language is Spanish and she stutters more in her native language. But she stutters much less in English and a little P...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2025
5 points

idk about "triggered" but I know that my fiancé (who stuttered since she was 5) speaks freely with her family and loved ones - which means she will stutter but is comfortable around them. When she's i...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2025
5 points

I wouldn't say its extremely rare but some people are better at hiding it than others. I used to with some people for months before I noticed they had a stutter, just goes to show stuttering differs i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2025
1 points

Oh man that's not good to hear...so I take it the medication didn't really help with fluency that much? I am also on a low dose of Abilify (2mg) and it seems to be hit or miss with potential improveme...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Helpful Med OutcomesHarmful Med OutcomesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
1 points

For me, I keep covering my mouth like its gonna do anything. I got over it, only thing left on me is just stuttering and it gets really embarrassing sometimes....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
3 points

Good read. I am currently experiencing many of the same physical issues you described. I have always thought a visible stutter is better than a covert stutter mainly because you end up developing load...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
4 points

I was incredibly anxious when I was in my late teens. I dropped out of school because of fear of stuttering and completely withdrew. I didn't understand how I could do anything or find a way forward. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentTrauma & PsychologicalMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
2 points

Yeah it sounds like severe PTSD, and those anxieties come from very real negative encounters. The problem of the dysfunction is that you start to view every interaction as the same. Stuttering for me,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringTrauma & Psychological+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
2 points

*I think our problem is we are so scared that people find out that we stammer, more than anything else.* This basically explains my life as well. I hate it when people notice and say "You have a s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
3 points

Thank you! Your advice was so on point. I’m definitely trying it next time. I'm replying to your comment now after I got back from the presentation this morning, and honestly… it went better than I e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
3 points

Your situation is hard right now, I have been there a lot. I've done presentations where every word has a massive block. If you can overcome that would be amazing, I always persued to overcome. Howeve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
2 points

Especially while on the phone, I think we train ourselves to do blocks to avoid the repetitions and the weird faces or noises we make...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2025
12 points

Ahhh it feels like I have written this! Fellow covert over here! So I had to present recently to a very senior board at work. It’s all I thought about for weeks. So I feel your pain. As a covert, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2025
2 points

Yes, the dysregulation in the stuttering brains dopaminergic system is the issue. Some of us have hyperactivity in the dopaminergic system, which is why dopamine antagonists (Ecopiman etc) work, and ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Neurological & BrainHiding & ConcealmentCycles & Randomness
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2025
2 points

When I was a kid, I used to add in an "uh" or "um" before stuttering. Took a long time to stop doing it....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2025
4 points

Personally, I would begin with “Sorry, I have a stutter”. I’ve had to do this while talking on the phone or ordering at a drive thru. It takes the pressure off and 99% of the time the person is comple...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment