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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2018
3 points

i moved to his little town and saw him in class. he was really cute and funny when he would have to speak in class or give an answer he always made it hilarious... in the summer we started hanging out...

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commentr/StutterAug 26, 2018
1 points

You make some good points. I guess what it comes down to is stuttering makes me feel unsexy. It makes me feel like I can't be a good sexual partner. It comes down to seduction and stuttering makes you...

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commentr/StutterAug 23, 2018
3 points

Awesome post! ​ Popcorn reading was the bane of my existence too. As girl, there were NO fellow female stutters at school. Even teachers laughed at me. 7th grade was when my parents FINA...

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commentr/StutterAug 19, 2018
2 points

I’m 10 days from 21 and in Uni and have the same problem. Especially when it comes to approaching girls. I have lots of reasons to be confident but my stammer really holds me back ...

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commentr/StutterAug 10, 2018
1 points

Also, give her mild compliments. Take her on a date. Be wonderful, etc. Keep going forward. A little stuttering is not the worst thing in the world. Also, right after telling someone that I stutter,...

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commentr/StutterAug 8, 2018
1 points

This kinda counts, I'm a dude who stutters and my girlfriend stutters too. They're out there!!...

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commentr/StutterAug 8, 2018
1 points

I'm not sure what to write. So if I write something overly simplistic, I apologize in advance. lol I've read somewhere that in order to change something you must first unfreeze, then change, then ref...

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2018
2 points

It almost got me laid once. Made out with a cute black girl at a party that said she thought it was cute. She told one of my friends she wanted to fuck me that night, but I drank a little much and n...

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2018
3 points

I wish I was dating someone, that way I’d have someone else to care about me outside of family, but yeah it does chap me. Overall I’m quite happy with my life, but yeah that tho. ...

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2018
2 points

Oh I know right! My confidence would be a lot higher, and I think I'd be much more able to approach people. Though for now I'm happy not dating anyone, I can imagine it being difficult when I'd like t...

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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2018
2 points

Wow I can relate to this. I know that “look” too! It sucks. If anything I feel like my dating life would be much better if I didn’t stutter. ...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2018
1 points

Hi and thank you for uplifting words! I don't struggle with finding sexual partners ocassionally but never really had the patience or desire to build healthy relationship. That's why I blame porn it ...

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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2018
3 points

First off don’t be ashamed of your sexuality. You love porn so indulge as long as you aren’t hurting anyone and no one in the video is being hurt. Stuttering gets easier when you just accept it. I w...

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commentr/StutterJul 27, 2018
16 points

This is me 100%. I know I'm an extrovert, I love going out with friends and I love meeting new people, but it terrifies me. Despite this I still go out whenever I get the chance, but I'm way less talk...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2018
1 points

Say yes... to the girl that ask you out. Appreciate that she put herself out there.. for YOU, be honored. It's awkward for her also. In that instance, you know she is already interested....

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commentr/StutterJul 11, 2018
2 points

I think this can work but it needs to be done right. You can't just do this to a random girl because then it would be weird....

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commentr/StutterJul 11, 2018
2 points

Damn, man. This is where I'm at now. I'm 31 and if things ever get serious with a lady my age, or a little younger, then that topic is definitely going to come up. I don't want someone to go through w...

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commentr/StutterJul 11, 2018
2 points

That is true but I think giving a girl/guy your number and walking away is pretty confident. It just cancels out any dead air and it's definitely more confident than any dating app....

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postr/StutterJul 11, 2018
7 points

A tip for anyone who's scared to ask someone out.

A tip for anyone who's scared to ask someone out. Keep some sticky notes and a pen with you or in your car. Write down your name and number. All you have to say is, "Hey, this is for you" and hand it ...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2018
1 points

I don't try to hide it because if she's the one for me then she wouldn't mind that I stutter. I usually reveal it during a good mood like after telling a joke and she laughs. There's really not a spec...

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