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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2022
1 points

I feel ya. I had teachers that would always pick me to read aloud.. Knowing I stutter and couldn't do it .. Eventually I just stopped doing what they said. It was obvious they were just bullying me.. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2022
7 points

I’m so sorry this happened. Ppl say stupid shit out of ignorance & there is no shame in how you feel. I don’t know if you’re looking for advise or simply support but just know that many stuttere...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterOct 23, 2022
25 points

My teacher made me feel bad to the point of leaving school early.

My teacher made me feel bad to the point of leaving school early. I was in class one day when another one of my teachers comes in. They start talking to each other. Now this class is small so we all t...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2022
8 points

Same for me , my stutter started at age of 9 at school because of elementary teacher. Now I still got the stutter Feels bad specially if you are perfectionist , shame etc .. Keep fighting and...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2022
5 points

First I want to say that I get you. I’ve also felt this all my life. I’m 24 now, and I have just started what I think the most tranformatory journey of my life. I am just now, at age 24, starting to m...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Friendships & BelongingIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2022
1 points

"Tim used his knowledge to go from having a very severe stutter to his current way of talking. Clearly, it’s effective in some way." Yes agree. "What stigma is Tim perpetuating? " \- anxiety, shame...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2022
3 points

The problem I think is that you have an uncomfortable relationship with your own sense of identity. I struggle with the same thing and believe many people that stutter do. That’s what I believe the re...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionFeared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
3 points

Well, gee! We totally agree again but I totally misread your comment! My apologies. It really shines a light on how strong the shame of blocks can be. You can achieve an internationally powerful p...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
3 points

No, but I think Biden thinks that. Many stutterers I’ve met would prefer they be seen as forgetting what they said or switch words around than being seen as a stutterer. I personally stutter unashamed...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
1 points

Is this because you think being a stutterer is more shameful than having dementia?...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
1 points

I feel him shining a light on it would show the world he hasn’t overcome it and I feel to him it’s better for people to think he’s losing it than being seen as stutterer. I strongly disagree with that...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2022
2 points

For some, it’s more than just “getting embarrassed”. It’s physically and emotionally painful, and if you have serious *blocks* where you end up changing your words and having frequent odd pauses, you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2022
3 points

I don't think it's bad advice, it's simply an option. I don't know how old OP is; but when I was younger, I had no choice but to do what the teachers told me to do. School gave me terrible anxiety. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2022
2 points

Yea I agree with both of you. Just cause I’m slow shouldn’t be a reason to be talking behind my back badly about me....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2022
2 points

Yeah... I never listen to myself because I can't stand how I sound to myself.. Other people tell me I can sing.. But if I play back a recording I hate it... So I just stopped listening to myself.. Jus...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2022
7 points

We are our own worst critics, and make our fears and frustrations way bigger when they’re about ourselves. I promise you, people don’t care about how you speak as much as you do. Once you finally ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterOct 19, 2022
14 points

Pitty

Pitty How can we deal with the empathy feelings to our way of talking! I know stuttering sucks but I just heard by accident me talking in a recording and i was stunned by how pathetic I sounded! I...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2022
29 points

For me, I think it’s this “desire” to be helpful and please other people and being ever polite so they’ll find it in their hearts to look the other way when I stutter. Constantly putting myself down w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2022
5 points

It takes real effort to stop negative thoughts. But when you are experiencing them, stop yourself. It's not easy. And what works for me or the next guy may not work for you. But you have to be kind t...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2022
3 points

I stuttered badly through ages 7 through 13. I am 61 now and can still stutter and stammer. What I noticed, looking back, was a huge uptick whenever I experienced trauma which initiated the start of i...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more