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commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2026
0 points

You're conflating two different things. Support groups exist precisely *because* of that small percentage of assholes we all encounter, not because everyone treats us badly. You say you 'never cared ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterFeb 16, 2026
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I enjoy stuttering

I enjoy stuttering I enjoy the adrenaline of not knowing whether the words will come out my mouth or not. It’s like my brain plays a game of chance if it wants to work with me or if it wants to screw ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2026
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That is making a conscious effort to put other people's ridiculous thoughts and bizarre expectations above our own. We don't have to do that. We can choose to ignore those people and live our own live...

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Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
6 points

First of all, just soak this in - you are NOT the problem, the problem with those who are laughing. You are an inspiration and stronger than anyone around you - KNOW THAT! Do not stutter but I had (pr...

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Acceptance & PrideFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
5 points

NEVER LET STAMMERING DETERMINE YOU SELF VIEW. LOVE YOURSELF REGARDLESS. It's a cruel world out here and you can't afford to be self hating. Their laughing means nothing and should mean nothing....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
11 points

You are courageous! You are AWESOME ! You’re not wasting anyone’s time, you deserve to be heard, and your stutter doesn’t make you any less smart, worthy, or respected. The people laughing are sh...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
1 points

I'm 23 male too. There are some fluency shaping techniques, like easy onset, light contact, slow rate, cancellations, etc. I think its worth a try practicing these. you probably dont want to actively ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
2 points

Sometimes we overthink our stutters to our own self detriment. Do NOT believe everything you think! You’re your harshest critic. Seriously, most people don’t give a shit about our stutters....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
0 points

A womanizer and a stutterer? Yes

A womanizer and a stutterer? Yes I'm a fan of street pick-up. I approach and flirt with unknown women on the street. It's okay, I have a good body count, and of all the girls I've slept with, none of...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
3 points

That goes without saying. I think almost everyone would choose to swap material comforts for freedom of expression and friendships. However, please don’t think that having a severe stutter will stop y...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
2 points

Take it easy. Relax. You don't helping yourself its whole overthinking and blaming. Try to accept your stuttering. You may never get rid of it, that's okay. And it's not fatal. Stuttering is mostly c...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
1 points

That's an interesting way to think about it, though I wonder if focusing too much on the stutter part might overshadow everything else that makes a relationship work. I know plenty of people in the st...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
1 points

I think most people don’t… it’s something about how you breathe while talking (atleast it sounds good lol) I wish I could sing all the time but people would think I’m nuts 😌🤣...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
3 points

We need to accept who we are and be patient with ourselves. You wouldn't scream abuse at a friend if they had an issue, so why do we abuse ourselves with self-hate speech?...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2026
2 points

Mine started at 19, fuck me bro. It started on the first day of military service (I live in Finland). My only explanation is that I was so excited but also nervous. Mine is rather mild though in the e...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightSeverity & FluctuationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2026
3 points

I just prefer those who understand and respect me, who accept me the way I am. Hope I got the gem I am looking for😊...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2026
8 points

The search for a companion is all about compatibility. Find someone who doesn't mind your stuttering, someone who will sit there and wait for you to finish your sentence. Believe it or not, they are...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2026
1 points

I think you are already facing life and going through it by being courageous. I’m sitting here not planning to marry or do anything. Hopefully I will be like you one day going through life even with c...

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postr/StutterFeb 14, 2026
8 points

A question for my single fellow stutterers

A question for my single fellow stutterers Have you guys ever asked yourselves if you would prefer your husband/wife to have a normal speech or a stutter? Personally when i thought about it, i came ...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2026
3 points

As you settle in to the new environment and get to know those around you, you'll feel more confident. You're doing the right thing by persevering. And be sure to notice how your colleagues aren't maki...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideValidation & Empathy