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commentr/StutterMay 8, 2024
1 points

I did not cure my stutter. I still stutter. Sometimes pretty severely. What has changed tho is all the things I was scared of doing, now do all the time. I give presentations all the time. I work a jo...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2024
2 points

Tf are you talking about? Who says i‘m not struggling with it? I still struggle to do normal tasks like talking to people, ordering food, making phone calls etc....

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Quality of LifeEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMay 7, 2024
7 points

Practice on zoom , professionals, remote workers

Practice on zoom , professionals, remote workers Hey all! I'm curious to see if folks would be up for having some video chats on Zoom to practice speaking. I tend to have a lot of high stress Zoom me...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & ProfessionalSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesTherapy ExperiencesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
8 points

Question: Did you disclose first? I bombed so many job interviews because I was more focused on my speech until I started disclosing, and then it became easier because NOW that I got it out there,...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
5 points

Oh I’m so sorry you had a bad interview. Perhaps you gained hints how to provide more positive data about your qualifications. This is very hard. Employment is very important to our self value. Being ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMay 6, 2024
13 points

interview today

interview today More like a rant. Had an interview today of tech position. Was struggling so hard despite questions asked weren't that hard. Regret not showcasing work that is more aligned with her ne...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
3 points

So I should add that I've tried several anti psychotic medications for treatment and caplyta was the best one for me so far. I'm still not 100% fluent and struggle with speaking to new people or in sp...

Meds & SubstancesSchool & Work
Helpful Med OutcomesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
6 points

The Marine Corps disqualified me from joining because of my stutter. I gotta get a waiver for it and its gotta be approved by 3 people a major, colonel, and 2 star general. So far its been approved by...

School & Work
Employment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
6 points

Ive been trying to join the marines since june of last year. Got dq’d at meps for my stutter. Still trying to get a etp waiver for it....

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Employment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
3 points

I always thought not being able to speak clearly and consistently would disqualify you, but maybe it just disqualifies you from combat roles or communications? Genuinely thought that was a disqualifie...

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Employment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
18 points

My restaurant promoted me from busboy to waiter. Less physical work, better pay. I asked to go back down to busboy after 2 months. Every fucking day, "Hey guys, how ya doin, welcome to ____ , I'm __...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
5 points

Why would the military disqualify someone for that? Been in service for 8 yrs now and i love it. Granted i work behind a computer most of the time and the odd brief here and there, which i hate with u...

School & Work
Employment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
5 points

I finished university and had always dreaded having to compete professionally( psychology). I considered myself very fortunate to have married a professional man at a time when being a homemaker was a...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
14 points

I’m an electrician and besides the blue collar jabs I get for being a dyslexic guy with a stutter it doesn’t effect me and I make crazy good money....

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Employment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
7 points

I’m just stubborn and push through it. I also found that the way to overcome people’s perceptions if it is by being so competent that they can’t ignore you because of your stutter. Interviewing via zo...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
3 points

> I stayed at same position longer than I wanted just because i was comfortable and didn’t want to interview and meet new people. That's me right now. I've even turned down interviews for jobs that I...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
6 points

I've been affected a lot. If it weren't for this, I'd probably be a sports journalist/commentator. Even as a software engineer, I tend to avoid promotions that involve a lot of interactions, so becomi...

School & Work
Employment & CareerPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
10 points

Yeah, when i joined the military i was not allowed to join certain fields, communications for example, but maybe Lt was for the best…?...

School & Work
Employment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
3 points

Yeah, i can how it can become a self-fulfilling “trap” In my job, we dealt with national security issues and DHS and frequently used radios that blasted over the entire airport. I always felt like i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2024
22 points

Absolutely. There are certain career paths im disqualifyed from, such as air traffic controller or police dispatcher. And anything that involves public speaking I have to avoid. I've had to get jobs t...

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