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commentr/StutterNov 24, 2025
1 points

Youre reading far too much into it for somebody who only stuttered once or twice through their shift. That is actually extremely manageable. You're in your head and need to get out of it....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2025
1 points

In my opinion it sounds like you are tense most of the time. Just the idea of speaking gets you so tense that you can’t get a word out even when you are alone. There is no outside tension sitting alon...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2025
1 points

My 2 cents: Build your confidence every day by doing something out of your comfort zone. You'll reach a point where other people's comments dont affect you. I am a National Trainer traveling the co...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationPublic SpeakingOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2025
1 points

Are stuttering only when doing acting/performance related things? Or do you stutter a lot throughout normal life? Chances are your brain is focusing too much on the perfomative side and it's messing...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2025
1 points

Notice your thinking when you are feeling stressed... that simple step automatically takes you into presence and out of its obsessiveness. ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindfulness & BreathingOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2025
1 points

I do the same; in fact, i avoid thinking about anything I'm going to say, that way everything that comes out of my mouth is as surprising to me as it is to the audience. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2025
5 points

CBT as far as i know, concentrates on becoming aware of your thinking, questioning it's validity and realising that you don't have to believe it; for some that's a revelation. It was for me. Becoming ...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Therapy ExperiencesOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2025
1 points

At first it will be like fifty fifty, people see more stuttering but you see more control. Trust me give it a try facing a mirror. It's not speech control it's like being aware of yourself...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2025
2 points

Stuttering comes with facial cues that many regular people are completely unaware of. Also, most regular people stutter themselves, but minimally and without the fear/avoidance behaviors. In the fac...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringListener Reactions
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
1 points

>Do you always feel a wierd veil afterwards? Yes! I get that feeling almost every time after I speak in a tense situation. Sometimes I feel a little dizzy, and there’s that sound block for a few seco...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
2 points

Yeah it sounds like severe PTSD, and those anxieties come from very real negative encounters. The problem of the dysfunction is that you start to view every interaction as the same. Stuttering for me,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringTrauma & Psychological+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
2 points

>Stuttering is associated with nervousness/anxiety which unfairly gets attributed to incompetence. You hit the nail on the head. I would personally say that this is the main reason why we are all mis...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
2 points

*I think our problem is we are so scared that people find out that we stammer, more than anything else.* This basically explains my life as well. I hate it when people notice and say "You have a s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
3 points

Thank you! Your advice was so on point. I’m definitely trying it next time. I'm replying to your comment now after I got back from the presentation this morning, and honestly… it went better than I e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
2 points

Yeah some people have temporary splinters, their legs fall asleep sometimes, and others have allergies to water. Bro, take your logic and gtfo. My dad has always said that to minimize what I go thro...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringStigma & BullyingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2025
2 points

It's not just that they might misinterpret stuttering for being "slow" when you stutter it naturally causes a disconnect in the sacred Homo Sapien obsessed flow and dance of speech/communication. It i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2025
4 points

face scrunching definitely happens. for me it’s looking away from people while speaking, involuntarily putting my hands in front of my eyes (i guess to subconsciously hide myself from them) and going ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringMindfulness & BreathingPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2025
3 points

I experience the same with speaking languages other than my native English. My stutter is much worse in a different language. I also attribute it to a confidence issue. I am less confident speaking in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2025
1 points

Ok I love this meme. lol. But I love David Tennant. I do think we are hypervigilant, which is common for people who have had a lot of negative experiences....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2025
1 points

My theory is that we are more focused on doing the voice impersonation and not self monitoring our stutter, which heightens anticipatory anxiety and tension in the vocal cords. Just a theory....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & Monitoring