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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2016
2 points

You sound like you're in a very similar spot to me, I'm 22 though. I can't introduce myself well, but can have a reasonable conversation with someone I'm comfortable with. I've found it best to meet p...

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postr/StutterSep 21, 2016
10 points

Block stuttering

Block stuttering Hi everyone! I was wondering whether any of you know what I mean by "block stuttering" and whether you've found any solutions (workarounds?) for it. Let me explain: as far as I know,...

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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2016
1 points

Not really anything like that where I live. Im not from USA. It's kind of remote where I live and stuttering is such a 'niche' thing. I know there are others out there but I've never met another perso...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2016
3 points

Nice! I wonder if they have NSA meetings in Canada, where I live. Would love to meet others in real life. In my experience, I feel like confidence is the best tool to combat fear. All the things tha...

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commentr/StutterSep 14, 2016
1 points

Hey, it's really no problem at all. My stutter was also really bad to the point where I couldn't say my own name either. I remember very clearly the burning embarrassment and the feeling that I want...

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commentr/StutterSep 6, 2016
1 points

Huh, how about that... I thought I was alone on this. Anyway, the first thing I do is socialize with the people I live with, and man it feels good to not worry about stumbling over your own words....

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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2016
1 points

My best friend listens without trying to offer advice or "fix" the situation. It's pretty rare to have someone willing and interested enough to listen to me talk about this stuff, even when they know ...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2016
3 points

Hello. I've been meaning to make a similar post to yours, as it is nice to see this is a decently active community. I'm in my mid twenties at this point and have only met one other person with a stu...

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commentr/StutterAug 4, 2016
1 points

There is a lot of great advice here that touches base on how you personally can deal with your stutter, I just wanted to add that who you choose to surround yourself with plays a large role in quality...

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commentr/StutterAug 2, 2016
1 points

dear we r not alone. we can feel each other of here. so we r best frnd each other... I want to be ur frnd......

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commentr/StutterAug 2, 2016
2 points

Ive never met another person who has or has had a stutter IRL ...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2016
3 points

You don't need friends to live. I have not had a single friend since high school. And looking back on it that is a very good thing since those "friends" were nothing but opportunistic users. One of th...

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postr/StutterJul 28, 2016
22 points

Anyone completely alone?

Anyone completely alone? My entire life, I've been going through the the motions you're supposed to go through. Go to school, get good grades, go to university, land yourself a job. Everyone single on...

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commentr/StutterJul 25, 2016
2 points

And remember guys , nothing to be afraid of , we're just helping each other out . If you do these challenges im sure you'll notice a change . - I'm kinda both overt and covert. - my stutter was...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
1 points

Looks like someone else didn't :D But I think it's something like this we're in here for. This sub is actually pretty much the only time I get to communicate with other stutterers like that....

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commentr/StutterJul 2, 2016
2 points

I agree One of the best things I realized was first impressions don't matter. I'm sure you also did the thing where you go around in a circle and introduce yourselves. When it got to me I was so shy...

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commentr/StutterJul 2, 2016
1 points

I just had my orientation at UofSC last weekend and not gonna lie, I wish I had talked to and met more people. I still had some of that shyness I had in high school. It's a long battle but I think whe...

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postr/StutterJul 1, 2016
15 points

Just wanted to share my experience

Just wanted to share my experience So I'm 18, just graduated HS and am going to college next year. Recently I just went to an orientation for my college where I had to stay the night. There were abo...

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commentr/StutterJun 30, 2016
1 points

Thanks for the advice. I like the idea of focusing on yourself and then finding friends with the similar interests as you along the way :) ...

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commentr/StutterJun 30, 2016
3 points

> I barely have any friends as it is now and nearly every girl sees me as 'that weird kid who never speaks'. I'm 19 and in the same boat. ...

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