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postr/StutterMar 21, 2024
56 points

They keep mocking stutterers

They keep mocking stutterers And some of you guys are perfectly fine with this? How?...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2024
6 points

I have a teacher like this, she doesn’t like me and doesn’t give me the time to speak. She makes passive aggressive jabs at my intelligence. But all of my other teachers are nice. Realistically, all y...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2024
1 points

My family never understood or accepted my stutter either, there are so many days where I didnt wish to speak fluently but I wished to have atleast one person to have my back. Don't be too hard on you...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2024
1 points

Yeah, it's tough for you. Your mom doesn't have the first clue what it's like to deal with something like a stutter every day of your life. You've endured things that would break her. She's supposed t...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2024
1 points

Yh i know exactly how you feel, i tired to tell my mum something important but i really stuttered and blocked really hard, at the end she was like what kind of report is this like semi mocking. It rea...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2024
9 points

“Fall down seven times, stand up eight.” - Japanese proverb. Shake it off. Life could be worse - you could be blind and deaf at the same time. I recently saw a kid at church do a 3 minute speech. He...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
1 points

From your own parents too, I can’t imagine. If anything you should be proud of yourself because you have the emotional intelligence your parents are lackinh...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
1 points

man that is really sad, it made me angry just by thinking if this happened to me . no disrespect but you deserve a better mom champ. I know its extremely hard that this came out from your mon not from...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
6 points

It’s really sad. Stuttering is partly fault of your parents. They don’t give you encouragement that you need to succeed in life. Every one needs their parents on their side. To have one mimic your stu...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
1 points

I'm sure we've all encountered jerks in our past, who imitate and make fun. But 99%+ of people are not like that, they just don't understand. Just like I don't understand a myriad of other conditions....

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
1 points

Hi Listen you are so much more than your pain in the ass stutter. It sounds like you are having a really hard time lately and that’s made your stutter more difficult. You will survive this and you...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
1 points

I like how you reflected on it, I agree that people aren't intending to be rude, they just aren't used to living in that discomfort. That's a discomfort that we know all too well, but I guess for thos...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
5 points

I'm so sorry... I'm 25 (M) and if my mom ever did this to me, it would break me. I hope you find peace of mind....

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
15 points

Yeah my dad laughs at me when I stutter so I feel he never takes me seriously lmao. I think it kinda ruined my relationship with him lowkey...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
5 points

I’m sorry to hear that. Can’t imagine how hurtful that must be from your mom. She is just a person and people don’t understand how hurtful it is when they make fun of or blatantly don’t understand wha...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
8 points

I don't mean to disrespect, but your mom clearly lacks some basic pedagogical/psychological skills. It's not your fault. Try to have some rest and take care of yourself, this too shall pass....

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
6 points

She doesn’t sound entirely supportive. I think the best approach is to communicate to her, in whichever way is most comfortable *to you*, how unhelpful what she decided to do can be. No offence but s...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
24 points

That's incredibly rude and unsupportive of your mom, I'm so sorry. It's reasonable that you might stutter more when you're stressed and it doesn't mean you've failed....

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
24 points

I know the feeling when someone mimics your stutter i feel all kind of emotions at that time Well its not stranger its your mother you should tell her how you felt...

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commentr/StutterMar 19, 2024
2 points

Most people have no idea what stuttering is really, sadly. They often connect it with comedy, although it's tragedy for us stutterers...

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