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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2021
11 points

Very interesting read. Would be nice to have the ability to lessen the potency of my stutter if not for just an hour or two. For job interviews, presentations, first dates, marriage speeches and so on...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerPublic SpeakingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2021
1 points

Tinder helps a lot. Because it is chat (the best thing ever :D ). That is how I managed to find a girlfriend and she even tries to help me with my stuttering. When you start to get to know that perso...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2021
1 points

I have no idea to be honest. I still stutter to her though. She knows I stutter but mine is mild. If I can get a girl I believe other suttterers who have issues in getting a girl can get it. I also u...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2021
1 points

Mehn. It took the grace of God to have a girl friend. My moms friend introduced me to a girl who lived with her for holiday. She saw my picture and saw that I was handsome. Lol. I got her number and c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2021
1 points

i was really thinking about dating sites... but i’m an almost bald 18 yo dude... i look awful. I know some girls don’t care about it but they surely can’t be found on dating apps. Girls on dating apps...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2021
1 points

I’m 32 and I’ve always had difficulty approaching women because of my stutter, also because I have no idea how to flirt and make small talk haha. Saying you’re young and things will change in the fut...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2021
1 points

Instead of randomly approaching girls, try online dating sites, where you can specify your situation before you meet the girls. Or social gatherings with open-minded people, like groups for stutterers...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice RequestsDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2021
1 points

yeah but how are we supposed to do that? Does it really have to be that difficult? I see tons of guys with girlfriends and it just feels so bad. At least you approached sone girls... it doesn’t even c...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2021
1 points

yeah i perfectly know about that incel phase but it’s been going on for too long. I can’t stand it anymore. How did you do??...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2021
1 points

This feeling is temporary, my fellow stutterer. This too shall pass. I went through an “incel “ phase (if you know you know) for a while, but I’m over it now. It’s very painful, but tough it out. You ...

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Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2021
1 points

2 out of 2 girls I've approached have walked off before I've been able to say a word. Needless to say, there's not going to be a third. It doesn't really help you, but you're not alone in this....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
1 points

I had my first real relationship at around 26. Didn’t have a relationship throughout university. I found it extremely difficult to talk to women because of my stutter. Women who judge you on yo...

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Dating & RomanceHope & MotivationStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
1 points

Well, i only interacted with him once. That time, i stuttered like crazy. Its weird, with my wife, i stutter like crazy, but with my mom, not so much. With my dad, i can barely get a word out, but i...

Social & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Dating & RomanceRepetitions & ProlongationsListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
2 points

Don't think about women. Find something you love to do. Do it. Gain confidence. Let your comfort around women build naturally through your love for life. Because you found what you love and no one ...

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Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
1 points

Well it wasn’t your stutter it was your insecurity but I’m the same so...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
2 points

A ton of it is mindset, remember that you need to get out there and rejection isn't always about you. As weird as it sounds, speed dating was one of the best ways to meet people for me. Do yourself a ...

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Hope & MotivationDating & RomanceFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
1 points

I figure that I'm still young, so I may as well try now. I haven't had relationships, but I have had friends and a social life (not great, but it exists). I suppose knowing that girls have been intere...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Hope & MotivationDating & RomanceSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
2 points

Yeah, that would be nice. Too bad it affects more men than women, so it’s kind of difficult to find a woman who stutters....

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
2 points

I’ve also done the work to get out of my comfort zone; I’ve been going to the gym more in the past few years, I’ve tried going to student events on campus, and I’ve gone to Meetups to name a few. I st...

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Helplessness & AgencyDating & RomanceSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2021
1 points

It’s hard to look forward when things just haven’t gone right in the past. I’m assuming you’ve also had few/no relationships but I could be wrong. How do you cope with it? Cope with the feeling that y...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyDating & RomanceLoneliness & Isolation